My Charming Valentine!

It reminds me of those cramps which women get when expecting to go through monthly purification or ready to expel that child in the delivery ward. It is no different from the feelings of bitterness, pain, loneliness, longing and disrespect. It is exactly how women with a regretful experience think of men who have put them through a dark route.

There is no woman who has never had their own fair share of sorrow from a man whom she thought was in an intimate relationship with her. Those feelings have a way of resurrecting in marriage; it gets worse because there is actually no outlet. A time when your original body shape becomes distorted from having children. Ageing makes it better as another younger woman is likely to take over from you at the slightest decision to walk away in search of another man.

"Ladies Learn The Formula"                                     reserved

Men have been the weaker version of women, and we must support them. They love to be pampered, and they act like babies craving attention. It is no wonder so many women get it wrong at this stage after having a child whom they divert all their attention to. We have got to learn men are deficient in some ways and can hardly deal with pain. Most men would die going through 9 months of pregnancy and having to deliver a child. They claim to be hard wired and put on a poker face, but a deep woman is able to see through those  theatrical performance and understand it better.

Those who have been successful with their men are those who have looked beyond the glossy surface. They know it is essential to have a partner, a friend and a husband. It is not a military zone where people are scared to reveal who they truly are by showcasing their weaknesses.

An environment where such relationship is shared you are likely to see 2 distinct individuals strong and Independent on their own, but more powerful together. Once that knot is tied through marriage one is not far from another course of study. Examinations and learning does not end in a classroom environment, even when you fail you need to go back and excel in those areas until you get a pass mark you cannot go to the next level.

Move on to another course of study, it will be so difficult to do well because you have it behind your mind I did not do so well before and failed.

Here, is how to deal with men, you do not need to date so many to understand them. They all belong to a group called "Homo-Sapiens". Why have they been grouped? They share the same features and characteristics. Women just pick one and understand those characteristics your problem is half-way solved. Try moving on to another man one will find his no different from the first.

"There is no need keeping more than one man to cushion one‘s loss".

"It is far better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all".

"Women go through a monthly purification whilst men need a daily purification to strike the balance".

"True Love Will Save the Day". 

Ladies we are not too far from February 14, a day where we look the one we truly love in the eyes and say to them," It has not been easy, but we are still together and will surely make it to our destination".


"Celebration of love and affection between intimate companions come at a cost, you have got to work hard at it. It is no surprise exchange of gifts, flowers and cards have a permanent seat in the hearts of those who have truly loved each other. 


Valentine is just another day like every other day for those who understand true love.

Ladies!, the secret to a peaceful home is having Christ as the unseen guest at every meal.


Ladies we do not have to spend too much to look good this valentine, once the heart is happy the body speaks for itself.

This biggest proof we can boast of this valentine, "A healthy relationship and true love".

All my love to the ladies as we count down to the basket of red roses and true Love!

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