GOD: THE NEW HOPE OF AFRICA

He alone is GOD: he made the heavens and the earth. His footstool the earth like petals falling from heaven. The powerbase of green vegetation clapping and waving towards the sea.

Praise, glory and honor are wisdom bestowed upon many to enjoy the benefits of the Sea.

The sun is reflecting the blueish mood of love surrounding the sea like a cloak with the boundaries contained by GOD.

Many tribes resting in the sea: resumption to excellence after suspending the tangibles and intangibles. The golden charitable nature of man revealed in his relaxation helping one another with a warmth of smile and ambience of peace.

The horses galloping along the seashore embodying the glamour of freedom with the waves exuding torrents of joy.

Wooden, ceramics, leather bags traded on the seashore for dirham.

Death not a friend of man on Casablanca seashore and children playing with their floaters. Adults swimming away from the seashore into the depths of the sea looking for Gold and Silver.

GOD the new hope of Africa as tourists flock the country trying out every cuisine from French to American cuisine to MacDonalds.

GOD is to be praised he alone has made the Sea with his spirit.

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QUEEN'S SPEECH TO NIGERIANS ON THE 1ST OCTOBER 2017

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An introjection/introspection: The Present, Past and Future. Nigeria celebrates 57 years of Independence. QUEEN’s message to Nigeria on the 1st of October 2017. 

A livid hope for a nation forming part of a continent. We owe ourselves the core duty of unity, peace and progress. The families have a key role in the distribution of the dividends of democracy. A nation cannot arise without a community and asociety cannot stand without families. Nigeria as you turn 57 today we have a conscious moral obligation to evaluate along the lines of RESPECT rule. Truth must be told, we can do better across various forces, zones, institutions, levels, and grades. Nobody is too small to reflect upon the progress we have made so far. Success is not absolute and would come with hitches which we suffer from many and trying to be solution providers as opposed to problem machinators. We are bouncing back after decades of sell-offs because of blurry vision and mediocre occupancy of sacred roles. There has been much abuse on the center with devolution and restructuring claiming grounds. According to Myles Munroe the great philosopher and teacher, “When the purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable”. And so, the center suffers from lack of purpose. Every African nation has a role to play in the continent of Africa. Duties and empowerment remains ambiguous. The universe was not created in the absence of vision. The qualities you would see is harmonization, congruency and order these are results of careful plan and a visionary who is a problem solver. Today, I stand in solidarity with my fellow Nigerians to reflect upon our strides, our tenor which is not forever and the results. We are in the awe-inspiringtime of challenges and monumental truth with broad smiles. We would. Or fail as we recognize our faults and making necessary amendment to our constitution which is the law of the people. Guiding chapter on performance, and steps to association to bringing about the fulfilment the people need. On this day being 1st of October 2017 which earns us 57 years in the exclusive stock market of liberation. I call upon every Nigerian: man, woman, sister, daughter, father, nephew, and sons of our land including friends to join us in making history which our forefathers paved the way for us to do so. What are we waiting for in this struggle, race and journey to Greatness? Every land ought to be green indicative of our flag and national anthem. Nigerian cows are a true reflection of what is currently happening in the country. The animals never lie when a situation is bleak or joyous. Lazy people look for Agriculture after it turns into Oil and gas. Glory is the food of champions who live daily by principle regardless of the circumstances. We may have been receiving signals in the market that our glory may be exchanged for a lesser duty and bleak hope. We collectively have work to do but am sure some confused about this daily effort. Vision would guide us from mediocre rules, purity would steer our boat more smoothly amid storms, values would shine our path to fame. We will not rest until we answer a name truly given to us by GOD. Nasiriya means confusion in heavenly language and the last time I quizzed directly on way forward it was so and has been the case for such a long- time. We have missed out a big time on talent acquisition required to move this nation from a point of confusion to a place of clarity. I peeped into the clouds of Abuja yesterday and for the first time I am spending Independence Day with you. The message of the moon was unsettled waters and instability. We cannot keep sleeping but pretending to be working. We cannot be praying but doing the opposite in our backyard when those responsible for calling us to action are also asleep because they are tired of our recklessness and stupendous faith without values. How many married men who have committed to their wives have shown discipline over time to stay faithful to thier wedding vows. Many in situations across the globe are not working after vows, promise and commitments. The urgency of now to fulfil the desperate needs of our anxious spirit and the drive to belong to a class which is non- existent. The chase of vivid shadows, false hope dressed as clouds, castles in the sky and foundations made of salt with temperatures melting counterfeit. We are going somewhere with vision over used by the one who shouts it the loudest but has none. We have been awaiting the coming of Jesus-Christ which states clearly for bible readers the Government would be on his shoulder. The question assuming, he came at this moment, would you make room or give way or continue in your false hope and dreaming in wiiwii land. The signs are everywhere for you to allow the will of heaven to avoid being wiped out or disappear into thin air. We have witnessed Giants being wiped out because big is no longer the game if Quality has developed legs running faster than Usain Bolt. Excuses are for men who were never born to live thier dreams. Where do you belong now of Kingdom reconciliation and acceptance? Until absolute purity seats in Aso Rock to rule and not necessarily serve we are far from a distance where GOD is watching us. A child can be set aside to change a Nation and you may see the signs but you make ugly remarks how is the weather. The child is asking how is your Economy? How is your community? How is your society? How is your Family? I want every Nigerian to pick up the book, Ultimate Journey to Greatness and read it. It is a roadmap to rule this country by a Child. The spirit of a man is more powerful than his flesh and that is why you cannot judge a man's intelligence by his age or experience at his place of work. Miracles do exist but not for everyone because the creator is not a cheap as you make Him seem. The air you breathe every day is for free but your thanksgiving is failed because purity is not your hallmark. A house is not completed until it faceshurricane Irma or Harvey just like Katrina. It is the story of Nigeria and other nations across the globe. Congratulations, because you are breathing and making effort to exist too. WRITTEN BY QUEEN AMA JOSEPHINE ESTHER KACHIKWU Welcome to Queen Ama's artistry world of contemporary thinking, spirituality, miracles, purpose, passion, greatness, success, political analysis and her infectious love of life and love.

DO NOT LOSE HOPE

An extract coined from Jeremiah 18:12 KJV

"An they said, There is no hope: but we will walk after our own devices, and we will every one do the imagination of his evil heart."

Queen Ama says: There is a point you get to suffering so much for little things that you begin to lose hope in your beliefs. What are your beliefs? how does it impact you and others on a daily basis? There is no religion better than others, but respect goes a long way. It does not matter your skin colour and tribe, but we are one. We must learn to share when in an advantageous position to assist others. Do not see your office as a place to undermine the rights of people. Do not take advantage of people who are vulnerable and need your assistance too.

Being good is not the trouble, but how long can you be good for with all the pains around you.

I love you all,

Queen Ama

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WHERE DID IT ALL BEGIN?

I SALUTE MY CHIEFTAIN WHO MAKES MY JOURNEY OF PURPOSE WORTHWHILE.
DO YOU KNOW WHERE IT ALL BEGAN?


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Black-White Racial Segregation and Divide.

Racial-class divide has always being a problem because of attachment to skin colour and also a clear basis for favouritism. 

I feel it is disrespectful to identify an individual based on skin colour rather than their titles. It is for this reason if I am carrying a passport of a country then I am local in that country and could be best identified by my name. If I do not have their passport then I become a foreigner in that country and have the option to become a local based on the country’s rules and regulations. 

At what point do I begin to make unreasonable distinctions based on people’s skin complexion now calling them black and white. Does it matter if am black or white living within the boundaries of a foreign country, which I eventually become a local.

An individual should be identified by their name and not their skin colour. We made a blatant error from the beginning trying to put people in a certain class based on their skin complexion and not their names which carry meanings and purpose too. We caused wars, which took away many lives trying to favour people based on their skin colours too.

Is it not amazing that people are killing one another based on “black and white” slogan which has no real meaning and purpose? As a matter of fact many have been sent to the grave before their time because of this blatant error which has been passed down from one generation to another.

If I need to revive a sick patient dying on the bed of a hospital I would first call them by their names and not going by the derogatory phrase, black and white. The first question I would ask a patient that needs assistance if I get to an accident scene is the name and nothing else.

Thus, I have seen people being raised back to life by calling their names and not addressing them based on a lifeless skin-colour classification.

The best way to identify an individual, community and society are the names and not the colours. I think we have been out of order to address human beings based on colour distinctions appropriate for inanimate objects. Thus, I can look at a car and say a black car, I can look at a house and say a white house; I can look at a tree and say it has green leaves and a brown stem and white flowers. I can look at the road and say it is a long winding road. I can look at another road and say it is a cross road. I can look at the sky and say it is a blue sky. I can look at the moon and say it is silver. Colour classification is appropriate for inanimate objects and nothing else. 

Why should human beings who ought to be respected classified in a system used to address lifeless objects. 

The names of Individuals, Communities, and Societies cannot be overemphasized as we begin to address each other based on meaningful names with purpose rather than lifeless classifications meant for inanimate objects too.

I was impressed when I saw Nigeria's new name classification for roads using footballer's names and former presidents who have contributed and made a difference to the nation. A foreigner new to that country can immediately put a meaning to those structures with different colours.

I can address a foreigner too in that country by their names and not the colours of structures I have seen within their environment.

• It is time to put an end to the lifeless classification for addressing human beings with meaningful titles.
• We must put an end to the black-white racial segregation and divide.

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Woman of Courage! Woman of the Hour!

She Died To Liberate Future American Youths

The woman of courage, Woman of the hour: Victoria Soto who died in Connecticut shootings to protect her own pupils in cupboards at the Sandy Hook Elementary School is a true Heroine.

I would love to acknowledge her here on my public fan page for 1 WEEK for what she did and what she represents. You will be remembered in my new book titled, 'The Fear Called Greatness'. I would stamp your name all over the place.
Your story is what I have been looking for in recent times and in reality to tell myself and the world to emulate on greatness and true love.

Victoria Soto gave up her life like Jesus-Christ for others to become better and live. She has finished her mission here on Earth at 27 and making history like Jesus-Christ, Mother Theresa and Martin Luther King.

Victoria Soto has demonstrated greatness and true love. 
My fans and I would all celebrate her for true Greatness and an idea of selfless service for ushering greatness into our own lives. Most important, getting rid of the fear, which hinders greatness in our life of true service and love to humanity. A life of service and love; a life of being selfless and giving out your all to make others better, stronger, healthier and fulfilled.

She has left a reminder for me to be bold and courageous living a selfless life and be ready to take bullets if it requires making other lives better who have not concluded their assignment here on Earth.

My old man, once said to us, 'If you move forward you die If you move backwards you die. Why don't you go forward and die a heroine'?You have gone forward and died to liberate our future youths in America like a true heroine.
You have acknowledged the words of my old man like a true daughter of his.
I wonder if you heard when my father confidently said that wise statement to his 15 children. 
You make me wonder if you are not part of us making us 16 children. Laughs!


Many claim angels are white birds with wide flapping wings, but you came and stayed in human form just to save the lives of the young ones in Sandy Hook Elementary School. 
You staged a momentary scene of silence asking the ones you truly loved to stay quiet in a cupboard for a few seconds while you took bullets on their behalf now ceasing that momentary seconds of silence. You gave up that power over the children to stay first in the cupboard, which was big enough for you to quickly slide into and save your own life.


Yes! Victoria Soto, the ones you truly loved heard that sound of freedom, love and hope after a momentary period of silence.
They heard you screeching below to the ground with a pool of blood liberating them.
You are true heroine; You brought tears of hope to my eyes touching my most precious part of womanhood and re-awakening it. You have awakened my senses that I have not even started.
You have taught as a true teacher it is not about me and my immediate family, but about the external community, larger society and united nation.

Victoria Soto, you have given me the most current inspiration to continue with my assignment here on Earth. You have given me a message for my people back home in Africa that I would not rest until I see change in my country, Nigeria. You have given me hope that the few years on Earth is not worth living If I do not have a true legacy of freedom, hope and unity to leave behind for everyone.

You have now decreed and declared a moment of silence for everyone to think about and retrace their steps.

Victoria Soto you are a true Queen; a world heroine and forever you will be celebrated even among generations yet unborn.

Many parents would remember you forever saying this, 'She's a heroine-She saved my child'.

Many lose their lives for nothing adding no value, but you lost your life for something.

Victoria I wonder what heaven looks like, but you know best as you did get there before many of us.

I wish you a safe flight and bon voyage to the safest place.


We love you and would miss you, but then again you left a gift of freedom, peace, hope and love for many including me.


We love you and may your soul rest in peace.

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What Can Unite The World?

Love shared between the uncomplicated and complicated one.

Love divided amongst the rich and poor.

Love made so easy but yet complex with its recipients not accustomed to receiving it in its pure form. 


A flowing stream of love hindered by evil hearts saturated in guilt.

Love flowing from the well spring of life.

A strong wind of love raising the dead back from life.

A dynamite of love uniting families, communities and nations making it just one.

The love so bright recognisable from afar.

A vision of love wearing that peaceful smile in your sleep, but waking up to reality not to get it.

Love, Love, Love, appreciate it when you get it, nourish it every second, utilise it until your last breathe.

Wake up to love; bathe in love; dine in love; reflect in love; share in love; give in love; walk in love; transact in love; make a request in love; compete in love; and work in love.

Close your eyes and just imagine if Love was truly the pinnacle we all strived for and not money.

Wake up from unfulfilled dreams; welcome to the world of fame, competition, struggle, hate, pain, disaster, bloodshed, witchcraft, poverty amidst plenty, sickness and diseases.

America, Europe, Africa, Asia, Australia and Antartica is one not worn out from all these vice.

It is time for change gravitating towards love; let us make it a reality and not a mirage.

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True Love, not Lust and Lies!

Wow! Just one day to go and we did be celebrating the world-wide love, but yet not many of us including me have truly grasped the concept Love. It made sense when a woman who had been married for over 20 years could re-affirm that love had packed up in her son’s barely 8 months marriage. Where there is no love dispute is the order of the day, but where plenty of love is made available it absorbs all flaws including anger, infirmity, insecurity, class and poverty. When love disappears or fades away it was never true love, but lust and lies.

Lust is an intense feeling and craving for a living or non-living object of temporary satisfaction. When the moment of satisfaction fizzles out lies are required to keep up with the game, which eventually comes to an end. It is no surprise a Man who claims to have loved a Woman can wake up from slumber giving excuses as to why he has given up on love. It was lust he had for the woman, and not true love. Whatever is a lie would never stay, but what is true is permanent. Love is all-embracing and make no excuses. It  is not a feeling, not a mistake, not a game and is  not an action item. To die for others and set them free without taking from them is true love. This was exactly what Jesus-Christ did for all, but not many have understood and can make sense of the true love showcased by Jesus-Christ. The true love Christ gave was given to us even without asking for it.

Love is not a Bed of roses, made with the most expensive linen. Love is sacrificial and it involves giving without expecting anything in return. When anyone begins to cry out I love you, but yet I do not get the same feeling from you they are just small kids who are still learning how to crawl. You often find such people looking for alternatives few weeks before valentine. The excuse some give to cheat on their spouse is they are not getting back love in return.

True love engulfs your whole being transforming your personality to the point you are called foolish. It waits and by its real nature, there is light at the end of the tunnel. True Love makes the one who gives it mad and almost at a cross-road.

 The world sets a day aside february 14th that declares and celebrates Love, but I mean an encompassing true love, which is ready to give up the gift of life just for others to reach the pinnacle of their existence. Nelson Mandela is another living Icon of true Love who gave up most part of his youthful and energetic days to liberate the people of South Africa. I am just wondering if Love is not a prerequisite required for our leaders who have been called to shepherd their flock. Those who practice love can never be hindered by the negative forces in heaven and earth. Now, I am sure you understand why death could not hold Christ in the abyss where he was sent with no hope of return. Jesus-Christ bled patiently to death because of true love. True Love conquers even a murderer holding a gun and ready to pull that trigger. The man capable of killing millions and stealing millions from people through fraud could be transformed through  love.  The criminal condemned justly to death with christ was set free and ushered into paradise without hardwork because of true love.

 True love is not what you perfect in one day it grows as you grow in experience doing those things expected of you to freely give it. True love gives an inner satisfaction of peace knowing you have made others better to become less of importance. It is remarkable whilst Nelson Mandela was in Jail many were already enjoying the "freedom from segregation"; he made himself available to become the sacrificial slave ending apartheid in South Africa.

 The greatest thing about true love is the end result as many can agree why it is called true and love. Whatever is true cannot be hidden forever and because truth is light everything concerning love would be revealed.

Count down to the day many have established deliberately for love, but let this guide you if that is a memorable day you have chosen just to exchange gifts you have not even began to love.

The love capable of bringing peace and healing to a hurting world is the one showcased by Christ, which is worthy of emulation by our leaders in position of authority or anyone occupying leadership position.

"Husbands love your wife just as christ loved the church." Christ first loved, but did not get love and respect back in return.

"When love is from the head it is lust and lies".

"True Love would be tested".

"True Love waits forever without seeking options".

"Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it."

"Flowers are not a true representative of love, it captures just a portion of true love which is beautiful and bright, but its dying nature is that of lust."

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When Is It True Love?

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A man asked Queen Ama what is love. It is just what it says I replied. "You cannot give what you do not have". "You cannot receive what you have not been accustomed to accept". Until you learn to love yourself, know who you are then only can you be excited to give that passion by the special grace of GOD to others. Jesus-Christ the genius of philosophy and the best teacher had said, "love thy neighbor as thy self". It is a brilliant concept, assuming you were given baskets of treasure to choose from you will take hold certainly of the best for yourself. You should give your neighbor that best treasure you would otherwise keep for yourself. 

I shudder when most times we say we are in Love, but that is not the case. When love starts from what you can see then it is not true love. Love flows from the heart and ultra pure. I used the word ultra pure meaning it has nothing to do with the brain, it involves a "white heart" refined by GOD and not a coated "black heart" saturated with malice, jealousy, bitterness, evil, revenge and gossip. 

You and I may try to write about true love or talk about it, but until you experience hatred, betrayal and death then you are not close to true love. True Love is a continuum, and you must strive to reach the other side of it then only can you claim to have understood what it means. True love is a flowing stream with a source, but moving freely without hindrance with intensity increasing by day from the sky through evaporation. True love emanates from the heart which is the source for the human who exercises it, that heart needs to be free of guilt, bitterness and anxiety for it to flow unhindered. The intensity at which it builds up depends on the well-being of that individual who is constantly united with his heart and not influenced by external factors.

It is only when you have experienced deep hatred, envy and betrayal then only are you in the position, to know what not to do to the next person because you have deeply understood the pain of not getting true love from one obliged to give it. This is when a white heart matters who by grace is able to forget and extend true love rather than junk piled from hurtful experiences. 

True Love does not end, but you have got to live and die in it. It is no wonder the church would check a couple coming together as one says this in truth and passion, "I will cherish our union and love you more each day than I did the day before. I will trust you and respect you, laugh with you and cry with you, loving you faithfully through good times and bad, regardless of the obstacles we may face together. I give you my hand, my heart, and my love, from this day forward for as long as we both shall live. For better or worse and till death do us apart." 

Why do many run out of their homes at the slightest provocation or when they feel their purpose in life has been derailed by their partner? They were not in love in the first place and went into the marriage with a black heart. You cannot be ignorant and talk about true love, you cannot be in sin and talk of true love, you cannot talk of true love when you do not have a relationship with the Divine Navigation System. 

If you think you are in true love, how would you respond to your spouse who has just infected you with HIV? or your husband who got your domestic assistant or best friend pregnant? or your wife who just left you for a wealthy politician? or a husband who leaves you at night for a secret meeting altering his image into that of a lion? How would you react?

 I think often why we cry when in love and get hurt is because we have not understood true love, we tried to get something in return, our expectations have been shattered, our dreams have been crumbled, our inner man energized by our expectations becomes dead. 

I say to those who are totally shattered from exercising true love welcome to the other end of the road, which marks another realm of true love and authority. 

When you are in true love you will play with the horses, you will be assured to swim deeply into the ocean without calculating that death awaits you because you are ready to die for it and not just say it. 

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True love will keep you free and assist you to the pinnacle of your existence, but who has the power to take you there if not the one who has loved you from the beginning not because you asked for it but because he chose to give it to you. 

You cannot claim to understand true love and yet scared to play with animals. You are hindered and need to be set free from hostility. True love makes you appreciate nature and praise thou who created it. The horses can tell when you are in love and would call the name of that whom you have fallen in love with. You would love everyday regardless of those external factors which control your environment and you will love until you become love. Everywhere you go favour will follow you because of that mark of love given to you from the ultimate source.

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Are you searching for True love?

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Are you shielding yourself from Getting Hurt?

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Have you Caught a glimpse of True Love?

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Have you Found True Love?

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Are You Searching For Love In The Wrong Place?

Christy A. Iguid March 3 at 10:16pm

Can I ask u an advice? I know u are a spirited and open minded woman and I really like your website so I wanna open up to you.

There is this man that I am inlove with. At first it was ok, I just saw him one time only. He was such a gentleman and I don't know I just fell in-love with him. I tried to make him know I was in-love with him and he was kind enough to tell that he was already inlove to someone from his country (Bulgaria). I was discouraged though but I kept hoping for it that maybe miracle will happen and he would love me back. I don't know I did stupid things that maybe he really didn't like.I shared his photo in my wall on a social -network site without waiting for his answer if it's ok or not. I don't like him to feel embarass so I asked my friends to like his photo and not to comment any negative things because he knows our language, but some of my friends were just teasing. He thought we made fun of him but God knows I really don't mean harm to him.I shared a song "I WISH I COULD" two times on my wall that was the day after I met him because I really wish I could save that moment at the street.  Afterwards, I shared again the same information because I wanted him to know that I wish I could shelter him from everything, but it's like things went wrong...I don't know how to explain to him now to make him believe and understand. I made mistakes and I am not a perfect person, but when I am in love, I've always been honest to say how I feel. What have I done? I regret but it's too late already. I am hurting because he is really a good man to me.

Ama       March 13 at 8:00am

Wow from Bulgaria! 

Hello Christy,

Thanks for sharing with me.

I do not think you have much of an issue here other than trying so hard to steal and share what belongs to another person. The result in the short term is disrespect and hurt. I am not surprised you are getting this negative reaction.

There are basic rules and not even the 21st century modernization can change it. A man hates to be chased and likes to do the work of attracting the opposite sex. It is a challenge. Although some pretend to be coy. There is no shy Man, just wait until one gets what they want or take charge of his territory.

Christy there is a difference between true love and infatuation. I can say any form of love which gets you thinking of that individual every minute, second and hour where you cannot do any other thing to the point where you become anxious is infatuation. It is a bit like having 2 pints of beer in a nite club and all of a sudden all those Men you would normally not speak to become attractive. Infatuation is like a High, the only way it can be cured is to go through what you are going through right now. You will be okay soon and laugh at yourself afterwards. You begin to wonder if it was truly love and where has it gone. True Love can never die!

Here, is Queen Ama's take on Infatuation which is a negative devotion, most girls from the age of 16- 27 are likely to suffer from Infatuation. It is the time to develop yourself and focus on inner qualities but most of us get it so wrong.

I like the guy as much as you like him. You know why. He is quite sincere and has every right to protect his relationship by behaving the way his acting now.

My dear Christy, please get off that High called "Infatuation", look inwards and start developing yourself. Infatuation is a time waster.

You are a woman and men should chase, pamper you, get your attention. It should not be the other way round. I hope you take my advice and stop wasting emotions and negative energy.

Trust me this is no dream and it is not one that can be pursued, you will end up wasting resources.

Love,

Queen Ama.

Christy A. Iguid  March 13 at 8:10am 

Sigh... Sometimes it's difficult to accept things but i am trying to now. Yes, you are right. Love will just just come at the right time. I don't need to look because if it's meant to be, then it will be.

Thank you :)

"Are you Infatuated or Truly in Love"?

"Most girls from the ages of 16-27 are likely to suffer from Infatuation". It is a point where so many want to get married. Perhaps this explains the reason for high rate of divorce across the globe.

" We need to truly know who we are then only can we understand another person's terms and conditions.

"The impact of Infatuation is short term."

One can argue age-group 16-27 is a reasonable time to "test the waters", but one has to be careful not to get in when frozen. What does one expect, if not shock and rejection.

Labels: "It is called Infatuation", "Who has the duty of attracting the opposite sex?, "False ambition".

A True Love Letter From Jupiter!

"An Illusion called Beauty"

Victor  February 5 at 10:16am 

Hi damsel this very first moment I am seeing you, your beauty radiates gorgeously like a diamond, It has been so long a woman has ever captured my attention so fully, Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your smiles fills my humble heart with joy & affection, and your mere presence in my life will warmly inspire my life. I have no doubt, you are the woman Heaven had made especially for me.

Most importantly, Trust me you will be glad you did sharing your ideas and wanting to make me your Husband. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship develops, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.

It could seem like am in dreams right now, am a very positive person, i wish you feel same way am feeling right now someday meeting you out there. I have onced been told of tales about " Relationship on the internet ", I never believed it but with you I can stand to be a testimony. I admire your fragrance beauty and sincerely you are the real definition of BEAUTY. I am willing to accept all terms of having you, I need your love, care and affection in my life.

Each day that passes from today would make my affection for you grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know nothing can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.

You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I would miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day finally arrive... right where you belong.

my humble heart seeks for your love....

do have your self a wonderful day,

God Bless you..

patiently waiting to hear from you.

Ama       February 5 at 10:49pm

Hello Victor, Thanks for your message. How thoughtful of you. 

Victor    February 7 at 12:46pm 

Glad to really hear from you, i bless the day i met u, you are a gem, simple, gorgeous, my heart got it all, i wish too hear from you soon.

God bless your heart.

av a great week ahead

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