When Is It True Love?

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A man asked Queen Ama what is love. It is just what it says I replied. "You cannot give what you do not have". "You cannot receive what you have not been accustomed to accept". Until you learn to love yourself, know who you are then only can you be excited to give that passion by the special grace of GOD to others. Jesus-Christ the genius of philosophy and the best teacher had said, "love thy neighbor as thy self". It is a brilliant concept, assuming you were given baskets of treasure to choose from you will take hold certainly of the best for yourself. You should give your neighbor that best treasure you would otherwise keep for yourself. 

I shudder when most times we say we are in Love, but that is not the case. When love starts from what you can see then it is not true love. Love flows from the heart and ultra pure. I used the word ultra pure meaning it has nothing to do with the brain, it involves a "white heart" refined by GOD and not a coated "black heart" saturated with malice, jealousy, bitterness, evil, revenge and gossip. 

You and I may try to write about true love or talk about it, but until you experience hatred, betrayal and death then you are not close to true love. True Love is a continuum, and you must strive to reach the other side of it then only can you claim to have understood what it means. True love is a flowing stream with a source, but moving freely without hindrance with intensity increasing by day from the sky through evaporation. True love emanates from the heart which is the source for the human who exercises it, that heart needs to be free of guilt, bitterness and anxiety for it to flow unhindered. The intensity at which it builds up depends on the well-being of that individual who is constantly united with his heart and not influenced by external factors.

It is only when you have experienced deep hatred, envy and betrayal then only are you in the position, to know what not to do to the next person because you have deeply understood the pain of not getting true love from one obliged to give it. This is when a white heart matters who by grace is able to forget and extend true love rather than junk piled from hurtful experiences. 

True Love does not end, but you have got to live and die in it. It is no wonder the church would check a couple coming together as one says this in truth and passion, "I will cherish our union and love you more each day than I did the day before. I will trust you and respect you, laugh with you and cry with you, loving you faithfully through good times and bad, regardless of the obstacles we may face together. I give you my hand, my heart, and my love, from this day forward for as long as we both shall live. For better or worse and till death do us apart." 

Why do many run out of their homes at the slightest provocation or when they feel their purpose in life has been derailed by their partner? They were not in love in the first place and went into the marriage with a black heart. You cannot be ignorant and talk about true love, you cannot be in sin and talk of true love, you cannot talk of true love when you do not have a relationship with the Divine Navigation System. 

If you think you are in true love, how would you respond to your spouse who has just infected you with HIV? or your husband who got your domestic assistant or best friend pregnant? or your wife who just left you for a wealthy politician? or a husband who leaves you at night for a secret meeting altering his image into that of a lion? How would you react?

 I think often why we cry when in love and get hurt is because we have not understood true love, we tried to get something in return, our expectations have been shattered, our dreams have been crumbled, our inner man energized by our expectations becomes dead. 

I say to those who are totally shattered from exercising true love welcome to the other end of the road, which marks another realm of true love and authority. 

When you are in true love you will play with the horses, you will be assured to swim deeply into the ocean without calculating that death awaits you because you are ready to die for it and not just say it. 

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True love will keep you free and assist you to the pinnacle of your existence, but who has the power to take you there if not the one who has loved you from the beginning not because you asked for it but because he chose to give it to you. 

You cannot claim to understand true love and yet scared to play with animals. You are hindered and need to be set free from hostility. True love makes you appreciate nature and praise thou who created it. The horses can tell when you are in love and would call the name of that whom you have fallen in love with. You would love everyday regardless of those external factors which control your environment and you will love until you become love. Everywhere you go favour will follow you because of that mark of love given to you from the ultimate source.

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Mind and Indecisiveness

Food For Thought~ Indecisiveness!

There is a price you pay for indecisiveness and being double minded. You will never get anything from God and worse still is the instability you experience being tossed by the wind. You should command the wind to obey you and not the wind tossing you about. You go where others go and you do what others do. You wear clothes because it is in vogue. You eat what others are eating. Don't you know you are royalty and must be unique? Don't you know something must set you apart as light? Do you combine rotten fragrance with a fresh one? Make up your mind and stop doubting the power of God in your life. You are almost there.

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Thoughts 3 For The Day~ Family

Thoughts 3 For The Day~ Family

Love and simplicity is what unites a family.

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Divine Navigation System!

GPS

Many execute the wrong decisions knowing the implications at the onset. When the decision leads to a fire we start looking for a fireman to stop it. Most times then one runs to GOD. I ask why one does not go to him when the going is unbelievable jolly. We cannot be fair-weather friends to a spirit, which sees and knows all our intentions. You are undoubtedly wondering why my prayers taking this long to get answered for those who even bother to pray, and understand the purpose and power of prayer. The obvious reason being you cannot put the Alpha and Omega in your pocket and bring him out just when you want him. One needs to build a true, harmonious relationship where there is a common understanding with your source. My source is Yahweh and a healthful way to know if your GOD has the supreme power of protecting, loving and empowering you are what happens to you each time you praise, worship and make your petitions before him in reverence and humility. Most salient is that impact and influence on other people’s life who have the privilege of tapping into the same source.

Dinah mulock is unquestionably right to say "The inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts, nor measure words, but pouring them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them- keep what is worth keeping- and with the breath of kindness blow the rest away". This is so powerful, and not every friend has the ability to function in this regard or carry out the functions of listening, saving, healing, loving, caring, merciful, not judgmental, patient and Kind. A Man weighed down by heavy feelings is likely to get drown in a flood of emotions characterised by volume of ill-spoken words. The merry news a Man who has a real relationship with his maker throws caution to the wind unleashing everything he has done from childhood to the point of feeling hopeless and lost. Such Man is likely to cry, scream and even use his hands to show his wrath. The power of the source is shown when such Man is able to speak later on an issue which seemed so immense, disgraceful and destructive in a meaningful and confident manner. He is left with sweet grains, as opposed to the chaff which he came along with, well implanted in his heart. The Man gets freedom, cheerful and is giving another chance to live that great person he was called to be from birth.

A new born from inception has a relationship with the Mother carrying him for nine months. The child holds the mother in high esteem and would almost describe the mother a goddess to everyone he comes in contact. It is no wonder children would never speak negatively of their parents. They would credit the best cook to their mothers even when the food is bland. They almost see their mother as that Hollywood star. Once the baby is born he needs the supervision and protection of the parents. I question many who struggle with the thoughts there is no GOD. They wake up in the morning running out of their homes in pursuit of wealth, knowledge, career and family. The desire and commitment to have these status items is nothing compared to having a relationship with the spirit, which allows you and gives you the ability to obtain them.

I ask my fellow wounded brothers and sisters in Japan who have managed to come out of communal life storms if there is actually a GOD. Who gave them the potential to be at the fore-front of technology if not the true and only GOD?

Muammar Gaddafi of Libya's source could not have instructed him to kill many innocent people at the expense of seat tight syndrome. Who is Muammar Gadadafi's source? Who is Jonathan Goodluck of Nigerian's source? Who is your source?

A child from birth has that magical ability to communicate with his source and would cling to the mother crying so hard when another person who is not his mother tries to pick him up. That is the power of unity, love and understanding. It is incredible as that child grows and tries to lead an independent life outside that parent, which he once clutched unto then he starts experiencing the pain of adulthood. The full- grown man faces the outside world just like his parents and starts seeking for those priceless possessions, which are not common but free. It is at this point many attain the counterfeits and the easy gifts from cheap gods who respond almost immediately but, in fact, transient to the point where they exist no more. Many eventually end up crying because they have been picked up by another woman not their original mother.

There are so many sources, but if you have searched and desired all your life to have a true relationship with the ultimate source then you begin to understand nothing else matters. It is probably the smartest thing to do and to key into with your last breadth and strength. Wisdom, true love, sanity, boldness and inspiration to live and be that you have been called to be are the greatest. The results attained by Men like Martin Luther King, Abraham Lincoln, Mother Theresa and Jesus Christ. Today we make reference to Abraham Lincoln who was intelligent to say in his time “Die when I may, I want it said by those who knew me best that I always plucked a thistle and planted a flower where I thought a flower would grow”.

You can imagine how many of us have gone through the required journey of life in search of prosperity, peace, love and health without the guidance of your source, we had suffered so much along the way from extremely long journeys required for a Camel. Many are grey-haired by now making little or no progress out of life from unwarranted trials. I look at the lack of civilization in some parts of Africa, which is a true reflection of the painful years of going against the ultimate source. This is Man’s fate when he decides to go to an unknown destination without the help of the ultimate global positioning system (GPS) he simply gets lost and would need the same amount of years it took to get lost to recover. There is simply a cost for losing your position on a global map which are the abject poverty, diseases and abysmal condition many are suffering as I publish this on Queen Ama’s Food for thought.

A concrete biblical example is Jonah who was sent to preach to the people of Nineveh against the wickedness and decadence they practiced. Jonah was a Man like you and I who had a relationship with GOD already fulfilling his own purpose. However, his source wanted to re-direct his path into what he was originally called to be and where he needed to go. He was given explicit directions and instructions on where to go and what to do. A fair-weather friend who felt such a task was not meant for him and could not be done by him decided to disobey. We all know many people’s lives were at stake because of that singular decision to disobey. Assuming Jonah did not have a relationship with GOD, the captain of the ship so frightened from the storm stirred up by Yahweh would not ask Jonah to pray to his god and perhaps his god would listen and have mercy on them. Jonah was asleep in a ship just a few minutes to getting downright wrecked from a sea tempest. Do you ever wonder why he was fast asleep in the midst of a storm? Jonah knew he had implemented the wrong decision from the beginning and was indeed right to request being thrown into the exact storm he had aroused in the first place. The rest is history as Jonah developed that grey hair from trials in the belly of a large fish for three days and three nights. He could have avoided such unpleasant painful experience only if he listened, obeyed and surrendered. Jonah lacked understanding and true friendship with his maker.

Today, Many of us act in similar fashion as Jonah putting so many lives into the deep ocean of problems; that gallow ready to swallow many unfulfilled lives as yet at the expense of a greedy and disobedient servant. 

Man is intelligent enough to spy the surroundings of an unknown destination with the aid of Google map. I find technology has made the processes and systems required to build a formidable Man better, but in all of this none compare to the diving navigation system (DNS) taking you to your final long decided destination. The divine navigation system works best for those who choose to listen, serve, and surrender. They go where they are asked to go because the navigation system would be there 24 hours to guide them. The Divine navigation system is the road angel there to protect you and pick you up when you cry, sometime we are stubborn enough to ignore the instructions coming from it but it re-directs our path. A man wise enough and familiar with such navigation system would almost find it impossible to do anything new without consulting first with it and getting precise instructions.

I ask why do you believe a global positioning system (GPS) for both driving and recreation, but find it hard to obey and believe the ultimate source which functions in a similar manner. A late friend Prince IK once said use a GPS in Nigeria and it would take you to where criminals are as a matter of fact making it much easier for their operations. It goes to show that GPS made by Man is not perfect but yet Man still would entrust his whole unknown destination and journey to the GPS.

The same mind-set required when in your car and trusting your GPS and believing those pictures produced by Google map which are not, real time is what you truly need when a supernatural being shows you what you will be and where you need to be in those dreams and visions. What I find fascinating with the GPS they only work when you move your car. In other words you also have a responsibility to play in getting the GPS to work effectively. It will only work when you have a trip to embark on, need guidance, listen to those instructions and not listen to your own instructions. Well, if you knew any better you wouldn’t need a GPS or plan when travelling to a new place.

Recreation GPS

What I love with the divine navigation system (DNS) it has multiple use and not restricted to travel and recreation. You cannot just bring it out from the pigeon hole in your car when you need it. You need it for almost everything, you need it when eating, sleeping, drinking, using the wash room, when looking for a child especially when barren and to discover your purpose. A person who is working outside of his purpose and trying to do what others are doing is lost and needs the DNS. It was the DNS that Men like Jesus and mother Theresa followed all through life. 

My friends all across the world you need to have a deep relationship with your Divine Navigation System, drive that car to an unknown destination without a GPS or map you just get lost. You need the DNS and only when you learn to apply those instructions then life problems are already half-way solved. We all need to make the DNS our best friend outside of our lovers, children, husband, family and the outer shell called community.

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Queen Ama is a living vision of freedom and womanly strength which cannot be denied. Witness the globalised 21st century personified Spiritual, hot, spicy, loving, female and totally African.

Your Foundation

You need to check what lies in the root. Your foundation is what matters. Do not try to get to the pinnacle when you have not laid a solid foundation. When you get to the pinnacle and your foundation is rotten sooner or later bush fire would take care of you. Do you know there is a way a tree grows in the forest that a farmer dares not touch it or destroy it? You must learn to speak to your foundation on a daily basis and you would get good results. Break every ungodly covenant in your foundation!


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