Sunday 27 March 2011

"Spiritual Attack" Exhibits in the Court of Law.






Many are actually suffering from the best form of attack, which cannot be represented in any court of law. The famous malicious method used to control the victim until they surrender all they have included their dignity. A man who is left hopeless financially, physically, emotionally and mentally probably has little or nothing to live for and would wish final death.

Some are going through such manipulation or those who have been lucky enough to escape such brutal forms of injustice are probably wondering can this be true. There is nothing wrong with asking questions like me but my answers came when a little Caroline of 10 made true confessions openly she was responsible for the break down in her aunt Mina’s marriage, an incurable disease and the financial constraint they suffered over-time. The smartest news Caroline was expected to live  free after the confessions but who could prevent her from doing so. A few days apart not enough to handle the first shocker when Mrs Kali who had just one daughter Monique who became blind at the age of 15; her teenage years devilishly difficult meant a devoted mother fully responsible for everything she needed. Mrs Kali terribly desperate by now and fatigued looking after a blind teenage daughter sought solution. She took Monique along with her, and they were both asked to do a dry-fast praying for three days in a well-known Church. Monique and Mrs Kali were asked to say a few prayer points, “OH GOD I was not created this way by you and was not born blind from birth anything responsible for my blindness leave me now and receive blindness". Mrs Kali as expected by any dutiful mother was interested in getting her daughter's sight fully repaired, but became blind herself. Mrs Kali who cried the most and highly sympathetic was responsible for her daughter’s loss of sight.

I obviously sought answers as a member of the congregation where I saw this happen and was indeed frightfully confused. It could not have been one amongst millions because each week there was another surprise awaiting onlookers.

I decided to invite others to share their experiences or observations of what they had seen over time and how the court of law can help with such matters.

Ama Kachikwu
How does one provide evidence to the court of law for spiritual attacks, which has destroyed so many across the globe. Most Churches understand the language but the court of law will only tender exhibits visible to the eyes with the cause seen in the physical. Worst still is the medical field which gives, name for all forms of sickness and disease but no cure for them.



Augustine 

The concept of spiritual attack and the celebrated case of somebody being attacked in the spiritual realm is tilting towards religion fanaticsm. I subscribe to the idea of believing in your creator-THE ALMIGHTY GOD, I also take seriously my faith in the LORD and pray tremendously for strenght and the need to do that which is favourable in the eyes of the LORD and by extension-human beings.Providing evidence for spiritual attack is in itself complex as the subject matter. How can one who is being attacked proof beyond resonable doubt that you are being attacked.? It operates in the spiritual if at all, it does exist! It is beyond the physical which makes it complex for human beings not gifted with the ability to see beyond to understand.My take is that no human being living on earth is left without the power to oppose any form of " attack". This is achieved by living aright( according to the dictates of your creator) and taking your belief seriously. The court of law is defective and deficient in their understanding and judgement most times!They subject everything to the abstract technicalities of the law based on the evidence brought before the court".Matters of spritual inclination are better left out of the premise of the court of law. For the medical science, we live in turbulent times where the medical field is tasked beyond their marrow.Truth is the world is at a stage where most of the diseases /ailment are beyond the medical practitioners. (please pardon me, i am not a profesional in this field, i cannot give an objective opinion).From my layman terms, we have far more ailment /diseases in the global economy than what the medical professionals can contend with.thank you
March 5 at 9:19am 



Ama Kachikwu

@ Augustine good morning, I am happy you are aware there are spiritual attacks and many suffering as a result therein. However, Your choice to define it in this case as religion fanaticism is not the subject matter of debate today. The question is quite clear," How does one provide evidence to the court of law for spiritual attacks, which has destroyed so many across the globe. Most Churches understand the language but the court of law will only tender exhibits visible to the eyes with the cause seen in the physical. Worst still is the medical field which gives, name for all forms of sickness and disease but no cure for them". So many believe in GOD like you and indeed very close to him. They even go the extra mile of doing that which is good and praying for others to do good as well. In spite of the will to do good and asking others to do so, praying to that effect many are under attacks and have lost their life in the process. Perhaps their decision to regard this one as religion fanaticism has led them into bondage which cannot be explained and cured by doctors, lacks physical and clear evidence in the court of law. Now, people are still suffering from such attacks but which is regarded as outdated and religion fanatism as you call it. How can such people be helped?
March 5 at 10:37am ·



Augustine 

My summation of it is in line with the subject matter.It is not possible to provide evidence in court for what is purely spiritual , We have equally agreed that the court is particular to work with what they can see as physical evidence. Since we cannot provide spiritual evidence in the court of law, it logically follows that" spritual attack" as a case brought before the court of law cannot be deliberated upon since we cannot provide physical evidence to substantiate any position.It can be better addressed and treated in the spiritual realm. Liaising it with the medical field, name must be given to any medical occurence, It is borne out of clinical manisfestation( please pardon me, I am not a medical doctor). AMA, lets be specific, can we name any of such attacks ,? may be that can even assist in our understand and appreciation of this attacks.thanks
March 5 at 12:53pm ·



Ama Kachikwu           @Augustine, spiritual attacks are done in the spiritual realm but with clear manifestations in the physical. The problem is having to provide the court of law with clear cut justification that a physical body damage internally and externally has be done spiritually. Perhaps, the need to have spiritual consultants in the law court will be needed in the nearest future since the medical field have failed to provide solutions. Some doctors agree certain problems have gone beyond the medical field and do agree some need spiritual intervention. Therefore, I ask who is responsible? Many attacked already see those responsible for their problems and the attacks some are about to launch out on them. These attacks include madness, paralysis of the limbs and fingers, diseases, skin infections etc. The list is quite long and we see this in churches. However, many deal with spiritual matters in the spirit realm even-though the resultant damage can be seen in the physical. I ask do we ignore the physical implication of spiritual attacks when you know the culprits responsible for ones problem. Assuming one had evidence would this do in a court of law and can judgement be given.
March 5 at 1:38pm · Like · 1 person


 Dosomah          I don't think it will ever be possible to sue a person for spiritual attack. As you've mentioned, the court of law deals strictly with visible evidence. From personal experience, a lot of ''well educated'' people do not believe in witchcraft...especially those abroad. I think the churches are better suited to deal with this problem; it is impossible to bring the culprit to justice. The way i see it, is that GOD is the final judge. These people will eventually reap what they sow!
March 5 at 3:20pm · 



Roseline Ekune      It is only a spiritual mind that can understand what goes on in the spiritual realm, and it is only spiritual weapons that can be used to fight against the forces of darkness, that is why it is not surprising if a carnal mind does not understand what goes on in the spiritual realm, and would want to use carnal weapons to fight against spiritual forces and to prove the dreadful works of spiritual, for the weapons of our warfare are not carnal! Spirituality is not limited in anyway way, Christianity is spiritual but not all Christians are spiritual. for example when jesus said that you have to be born-again, to enter into the kingdom of God, some of the people understood it as entering into the mother womb and being born again, which a carnal mind will understand that way, that was why jesus came on earth in the physical form, because who was coming to the physical realm but that did not limit God in any way to destroy the works of darkness spiritually, just as a lawyer, a medical practitioner can be spiritual to destroy and to prove the works of darkness, for example a woman had a tumour of 70kg growing from her spine to her waist and belly,at Augustine just a glance of a photo of that tumour,you would have said it was impossible,or better still that it was photoshopped,lol! inclusive of several other people who would have acted like Thomas also they would want to see for themselves and touch to believe that a tumour would grow as large as that size,surprisingly this lady had operated on this tumour as large as this size several years back,but it grew back again,at this point all hopes was lost that the woman would die like that on the operating table,as about 50 doctors had rejected to operate on this lady as the location and size of this tumour was just too invasive.but a doctor who believed that God would use him to prove and defeat the works of darkness regardless of his medical knowledge, even the doctor himself had said that since all his years as a medical practitioner he has never come across such a case as this was just abnormal,before they operated on the woman they prayed for hours for a successful surgery, because they knew this was a spiritual force of darkness at work! they simply would have gone ahead to operate solely depending on medical knowledge, this similar scenario can happen in a law court also,where the culprits come out themselves and confess what had happened and how it had happened,without any form of evidence to the physical eyes this happens because the lawyer has seen beyond law suits and physical evidence but to kneel down and pray against the works of darkness, a carnal mind would ask how does a lawyer praying,present evidence,??? it is only a spiritual mind that would understand how that works! because the spiritual realm are not meant to be understood by a carnal mind,because it only sounds foolish to the ears no matter the dimensions of a million explanations and impossible, but it is real! it is only if someone has experienced it for themselves that they can understand, prayer is a spiritual tool which can be used by anyone who is spiritual and is a Christian regardless of his profession. Faith is the substance of things hoped for the evidence of things not seen, but yet people have faith inclusive of even unbelievers believing that what they desire would manifest in the physical realm without wanting to know how that happened in the midst of impossibilities, but as long as they get what they want…then why should they question that the evidence of spiritual attacks can be proved, that is the result of so many doubting “thomases” in the world as seen in the bible ! lol
March 5 at 3:25pm ·like · 2 people



Ama Kachikwu              @ Dosomah it is for this same reason that many keep practicing witchcraft and using sorcery and magic. God obviously is the final Judge like his the final Judge in other court cases tendering physical evidence. The rate at which such occultic practice is bringing harm upon people in the physical realm with their culprits known is just unbelievable. I know in the nearest future we will have a court for such to pass judgement on people practicing them. What I find most of them sent on assignment who have constantly failed end up confessing before they die.
March 5 at 3:29pm · Like · 1 person




Larry Chukwuma Aboy     The court has no say concerning spiritual or occultic attacks. I don't think science's invented a technology to detect such cause. So what the court of law has to do is to throw such cases out or should be settled out of court between both parties...
March 5 at 4:31pm · 



Sandra       Spiritual matters cannot be carnally discerned at the same time we must wisely understanding and spiritually interpreted by the guide of the Holy Spirit what is the truth. While it is true that spiritual attacks can destroy people and their homes, some of the worse attacks come from those the pulpit who exploit the vulnerability of their members who are not real 'pastors'. Diseases or sicknesses that do not have a name must be addressed and we must remember that only God can heal.



Ama Kachikwu       @ Sandra I agree with you, but those false pastors belong to the kingdom of darkness as those who are inflicting pain on people through the spiritual medium. Likewise many doctors you and I visit in the hospitals belong to the same kingdom. How about the pharmaceutical Industry who do not wish for your recovery and would rather you take drugs for the rest of your life. We need to truly make sense of the times we operate in. Those undergoing spiritual attacks and understand what they are going through, have their problem half solved. Many do not even know they are attacked spiritually and would move about as vagabonds in the physical realm from one doctor to another. Do they make progress? of course not. Yes, GOD is the genuine balm of Gilead who has made the doctors, fake pastors and pharmaceutical companies. You and I have the choice of developing ourselves spiritually, it requires hard-work and prayers, genuine repentance. However, I see this happening in the nearest future where the court of law will need to work closely with genuine pastors and victims of witchcraft attack. Witches have a span after they have launched their attacks several times on the wrong person who might be prophet or a chosen one of GOD. Guess what? they eventually confess but it will make sense to have such exhibits tendered in the law court. Jehovah Jireh is the ultimate Judge in court cases involving physical evidence and spiritual evidence with visible manifestations in the physical. Something has to be done, many are being killed through this means and destinies cut short.



Sandra 

@ Ama...........I agree and disagree with you and I will explain why. Many times people repeat what they see other ministers do wrongly does that make them false? No, it makes them uninformed or misinformed and hence they destroy the lives of people. A friend was talking to me and asked what I thought of America separation of State and Church and I said I totally agree with the founding fathers on that notion. Why, because the founding fathers knew that some day a radical whether it would be a Christian, Muslim or otherwise would plunge the country into a religious idealogical war. To prove that these men were undoubtedly inspired by God to write American institution, we can see what religiously imbalanced mad leaders have done globally, from Arab countries to even George Bush who allowed a bunch of pastors to convince him to bomb Iraq and lied about it to places like Nigeria and Ghana that Christianity has become the most easily and cheapest way to make money.
Sunday at 12:15pm · 



Ama Kachikwu     You can easily identify a fake prophet from a real one. A fake prophet would tell you GOD said but God did not say. The good news, GOD grooms a prophet people have never heard of and people are not likely to believe the Judgement is about to bring upon his people. People are able to distinguish such individuals by unprecedented happenings which they had predicted long beforehand. It takes the spirit of discernment for one to know who is true and false prophet or pastor.
Sunday at 12:30pm · 



Sandra         Dear Ama...........you have said several things in your response. 1.. That is is easy to identify a false prophet then the question begs, why are so many bible believing people being deceived in giving their mortgage money, car note, house rent and children's school fees to such men (false prophets seemed to be more cornered by men than women which does not mean that there are not false women out there). Should this not be easy for people who have common sense to see the falseness? Now does God groom prophets, yes but He normally uses another prophet to groom a person even one whom He has left such as Eli-Samuel relationship or the great prophet Elijah-Elisha. You are VERY correct when an authentic unknown prophet speaks about judgment to his people because many people have itching ears. Finally you are correct that it takes a spirit of discernment to discern who is really a prophet but also one who is living a true Christian lifestyle....I cannot see a crooked Christian receiving the spirit of discernment from God, to practice more crookedness......lol
Sunday at 12:39pm · 



Ama Kachikwu    ‎@Sandra to digress a little from the topic of discussion just like you and I have done in our last 2 statements. It is written, Judgment would start from the house of GOD. In other-words, nothing is new under the son, Jesus over-turned the table of the money-changers in the temple. I hope it rings a bell. Thanks for your contribution.
Sunday at 12:42pm · 



Ama Kachikwu     Dear Sandra, please read Ezekiel 13:17-23. It has the answers to why bible believing Christians fall in the hands of false prophets and priests. It also says what will happen to those false prophets. They would not go unpunished. Trust me!
Sunday at 2:46pm · 



Tony Ogbechie    Very simple people! Just take him to the court of God and ask Jesus to be your counsel.lol. This is so bad that even when the so called evil man confesses, counsel will say he's is suffering from a mental disorder.
43 minutes ago · like · 2 people




Larry Chukwuma Aboy              It's a complicated african culture that's dificult 2 proof...
39 minutes ago ·


Ama Kachikwu      ‎@Tony you might just be doing the work of a true pastor here with your understanding of the deep issue at hand. You are dead right with the last paragraph of the synopsis on spiritual attacks requiring the attention of the court of Law, which happens to be a court of GOD with Jesus the counsel.. Lol!






Many are enslaved for years making little or no progress out of life, yet they do not know they are under a spell and have actually been jinxed. I am talking about Men and Women who are in their 40's, 50's, 60's and even 70's.

It almost sounds criminal to be addressing spiritual hot attacks done in darkness with utmost secrecy in a modern world. Why are people dabbling in devilish occultic arts (Sorcery, divination, Magic, spells, enchantments, charming, wizardry, witchcraft) and are members of the occult requiring evil covenants with human sacrifice?

One would be amazed the victims of afflictions, pain and suffering normally see their oppressors when asleep. However, once the oppressor has been warned directly they start using the faces of others very close to the victim. Hence, the spirit of discernment is very important and revelation power.

Many Women/Men end up without a partner for the rest of their lives, simply they have a husband/wife who comes to them at night leaving their bed linen wet from secretions and one wonders where the husband/wife has gone in the morning with nobody in the physical.

How can this be addressed in the court of law knowing most times the messenger/agent of wickedness and member of the occult is likely to make true confessions on the number of people destroyed and killed on a yearly basis when the end game is near.

It is advisable for those going through spiritual attacks to “put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Ephesians 6:11-12). 

One wonders can a human being like me inflict pain and long-suffering, it is quite straightforward there are powers, principalities and influential men and women in every country who are rulers of darkness behind Divination, fortune-telling, mediums, spiritism, necromancy, familiar spirits, wizardry, seances, channeling, clairvoyance and spirit-guides.

Many have dirty foundation involving idols created by men and need to cleanse it.



Labels: "Spiritual Attacks", Some Influential Men/Women Practice Witchcraft/Wizardry 



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Wednesday 23 March 2011

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: What Is Your Middle Finger Doing?

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: What Is Your Middle Finger Doing?: "'Chivalry Is The Solution.' They are complete five fingers, but what are they doing. We all know social etiquettes do not allow a perso..."

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Saturday 19 March 2011

What Is Your Middle Finger Doing?

"Chivalry Is The Solution."



They are complete five fingers, but what are they doing. We all know social etiquettes do not allow a person pointing a middle finger at another person in public. What makes this uniquely obscene, the news network and even chat shows assign a time slot where they accuse people who have intelligently engaged in the fraudulent art of getting people to give up their life savings.


















This is not about everyday manners required to thrive in the family, larger community, the society, the nation and even in the world. Perhaps, the medieval knightly system with its religious moral and social code would help in the nearest future where people are taught the decency to work for their money and not expecting wealth in one night. Rome with its stately buildings and a lively tourist attraction spot was not built in one day. How come we are so gullible and greedy when it comes to giving up all we have in one day?

There are processes, systems, and actions required over-time to acquire wealth. One often finds people who are so quick to jump the gun get bitten, although the business community calls them risk-takers. What makes it truly amusing is the risk-averse individual grudgingly looking for loop-holes getting caught up in the same sin of greed and dirty deals.

The art of Chivalry seems to have developed legs running far from humans it was intended. Man is expected to have dominion and more superior to animals in terms of knowledge and strong will. It would seem animals are more committed to the required art of courage, wisdom, honor, courtesy, justice, and a readiness to help the weak.

The ant is the least of all species in the animal kingdom by virtue of its size, look and gait. If not for anything but true wisdom, observe the ant kingdom. They have no general overseer or stewardship, but what keeps it going on a daily basis is the ability to secure food in summer and store up provisions during harvest time. It is quite obvious the ant has a clear-cut strategy to acquiring wealth requiring some form of labour. The ant has knowledge, which man fails to acquire and put into practice. The ant knows advantage gained prematurely would never be blessed in the long-run, and it would be killed with a shoe applying slight pressure.

What can be most beneficial? the communication networks and banks are excellent collaborators facilitating intelligent, advanced- fee fraud with an extract, which can be secured on BBC’s site.

The Advanced Fee-fraud community popularly known as 419 scams with its sophistication has gone to another level. Here, are clear illustrations and genuine proof encouraging one to be greedy doubling income over-night.

For your kind attention: Scam 1


Could you please consider helping me to relocate this sum of Ten Million five hundred thousand dollars (us$10.5m) to your Country for establishing an industry in your country.

This fund was deposited in our bank by Mr. Paul Louis Halley from France who died in a plane crash in 2003 TBM 700 aircraft on 6 December with his wife and the whole crew on board.

Without a (heir) hence the money is floating and if I do not remit this money out urgently it will be forfeited for nothing and the big guns at the herms of administration at the bank will share this fund amongst themselves as it has been done if no trace of heir to such fund is found.

We have tried to contact his family to come forward for claims but could not succeed.
Click here (http://newswww.bbc.net.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/oxfordshire/4537663.stm)

I will give you all vital information concerning the France citizen and the $10.5m in our custody so that you will contact my bank for them to release the money to you as the next of kin to the deceased person.

You will have to establish contact with the bank while i will guide you on the steps to follow till the transfer of this fund reaches to you and your account.

As one of the bank directors, I will play a role to make sure that the fund is released to you.

This is a legitimate transaction and you will be compensated with 40% for your assistance for presenting yourself as the next of kin and account to receive this fund in your country. If you are interested please write back for more clarifications.

I will know that actually you are ready to be my partner and then I will have to send to you a draft application form which you are to fill and apply for the release of the fund to your account in your desired country.


Mrs Diani Kabori.


For your kind attention: Scam 2

Hello Dear,

I know that this proposal might be a surprise to you, but do consider it as an emergency. I am Esther John Nanefe from Liberia in West Africa who is seeking for refugee in Republic of Benin under the (UNHCR) due to the longing civil war in my country.

My (late) father Dr.John Nanefe, was the personal adviser to the former head of states, also a successful business man import and exporter of Cocoa during his life time. But he was killed along side with my mother during the longing civil war and all his properties were totally destroyed.

However, after their death I managed to escape with a very important document DEPOSIT CERTIFICATE (USD$5.9M) Five Million Nine Hundred Thousand United State Dollars deposited by my late father in one of the leading bank with my name as the next of kin.

Meanwhile, I am saddled with the problem of securing a trust worthy foreign personality to help me transfer the money over to his/her country and into possession pending my arrival to meet with him.

Furthermore, you can contact the bank for confirmation, I will send to you the full contact address of the bank, once I get your positive response to help me with the transfer of the funds to your bank account, and help me with the investment of the funds, and my coming over to join with you in your country.
In the light of above I will like you to keep it to yourself and don't tell it to anyone for I am afraid of loosing my life and the money. I wait your positive response.

Remain Bless
Esther John Nanefe.





What are your Middle fingers doing? You should always ask this question less you be found accusing someone else of your failure to greedily acquire wealth.
People get caught up in scams destroying their lives and many others in a shallow well. 
Those scammed pointing a middle finger have similar four fingers pointing back at them. It goes to show the"swindled" is worst than the swindler. 
"It is a perfect coalition of like minds, the one greedy and negatively-intelligent gaining commitment at the peril of one hungry for instant wealth".
"People who are so hungry for wealth find that wealth flying off like an eagle never returning to the lovely nest".
"I have never seen a rich man who acquired wealth genuinely who did not start out as an ant and later became an elephant".
"Genuine success is truly a process".
Women expected to be more reserved than men would go extra mile organizing such scams. 
Have you been scammed? Some accuse Nigerians of advanced- fee fraud, but I have a unique name for those scammed, unintelligent instant-wealth fraud.

Labels: "Advanced-Wealth Hungry"; "Fraudulent Ambition".

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: Most Girls from the Age of 16- 27 Are Infatuated.

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: Most Girls from the Age of 16- 27 Are Infatuated.: "Christy A. Iguid March 3 at 10:16pm Can I ask u an advice? I know u are a spirited and open minded woman and I really like your webs..."

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Saturday 12 March 2011

Are You Searching For Love In The Wrong Place?





Christy A. Iguid March 3 at 10:16pm

Can I ask u an advice? I know u are a spirited and open minded woman and I really like your website so I wanna open up to you.


There is this man that I am inlove with. At first it was ok, I just saw him one time only. He was such a gentleman and I don't know I just fell in-love with him. I tried to make him know I was in-love with him and he was kind enough to tell that he was already inlove to someone from his country (Bulgaria). I was discouraged though but I kept hoping for it that maybe miracle will happen and he would love me back. I don't know I did stupid things that maybe he really didn't like.I shared his photo in my wall on a social -network site without waiting for his answer if it's ok or not. I don't like him to feel embarass so I asked my friends to like his photo and not to comment any negative things because he knows our language, but some of my friends were just teasing. He thought we made fun of him but God knows I really don't mean harm to him.I shared a song "I WISH I COULD" two times on my wall that was the day after I met him because I really wish I could save that moment at the street.  Afterwards, I shared again the same information because I wanted him to know that I wish I could shelter him from everything, but it's like things went wrong...I don't know how to explain to him now to make him believe and understand. I made mistakes and I am not a perfect person, but when I am in love, I've always been honest to say how I feel. What have I done? I regret but it's too late already. I am hurting because he is really a good man to me.





Ama       March 13 at 8:00am

Wow from Bulgaria! 


Hello Christy,

Thanks for sharing with me.

I do not think you have much of an issue here other than trying so hard to steal and share what belongs to another person. The result in the short term is disrespect and hurt. I am not surprised you are getting this negative reaction.

There are basic rules and not even the 21st century modernization can change it. A man hates to be chased and likes to do the work of attracting the opposite sex. It is a challenge. Although some pretend to be coy. There is no shy Man, just wait until one gets what they want or take charge of his territory.

Christy there is a difference between true love and infatuation. I can say any form of love which gets you thinking of that individual every minute, second and hour where you cannot do any other thing to the point where you become anxious is infatuation. It is a bit like having 2 pints of beer in a nite club and all of a sudden all those Men you would normally not speak to become attractive. Infatuation is like a High, the only way it can be cured is to go through what you are going through right now. You will be okay soon and laugh at yourself afterwards. You begin to wonder if it was truly love and where has it gone. True Love can never die!

Here, is Queen Ama's take on Infatuation which is a negative devotion, most girls from the age of 16- 27 are likely to suffer from Infatuation. It is the time to develop yourself and focus on inner qualities but most of us get it so wrong.

I like the guy as much as you like him. You know why. He is quite sincere and has every right to protect his relationship by behaving the way his acting now.

My dear Christy, please get off that High called "Infatuation", look inwards and start developing yourself. Infatuation is a time waster.

You are a woman and men should chase, pamper you, get your attention. It should not be the other way round. I hope you take my advice and stop wasting emotions and negative energy.

Trust me this is no dream and it is not one that can be pursued, you will end up wasting resources.

Love,

Queen Ama.


Christy A. Iguid  March 13 at 8:10am 

Sigh... Sometimes it's difficult to accept things but i am trying to now. Yes, you are right. Love will just just come at the right time. I don't need to look because if it's meant to be, then it will be.

Thank you :)







"Are you Infatuated or Truly in Love"?
"Most girls from the ages of 16-27 are likely to suffer from Infatuation". It is a point where so many want to get married. Perhaps this explains the reason for high rate of divorce across the globe.
" We need to truly know who we are then only can we understand another person's terms and conditions.
"The impact of Infatuation is short term."
One can argue age-group 16-27 is a reasonable time to "test the waters", but one has to be careful not to get in when frozen. What does one expect, if not shock and rejection.

Labels: "It is called Infatuation", "Who has the duty of attracting the opposite sex?, "False ambition".

Saturday 5 March 2011

"An Unexpected Cure Found in 2011"

Queen Ama's Debate

Why would anyone want to stay in power for 41 years refusing to leave office by opening fire on protesters? Innocent Civilians have the right to vote in their leader, but does ones voice truly count in Africa. We are undoubtedly far from democracy and worst still a better positioning on the global map. How can the youths assist?



Lindsey 

The answer is simple, African leaders suffer from Sit-Tight Syndrome(STS), just check the history of leadership in Africa since independence & u'll see that only a FEW haven't been bitten by the bug that spreads this disease.
The method that some African countries are adopting to enforce their rights...PUBLIC PROTESTS, seem to be paying off: Egypt is a leading example, Libya, Algeria are following suit, & I hope someday, Zimbabweans too, will wake up from their slumber.
Friday at 6:14pm · Like · 1 person




Augustine   

Power intoxicates. African strong men heard Obama when he visited Ghana, he did mention that we dont need strong men but strong institutions. From Tunisia to Egypt and Libya through Cameroun , Uganda and Sudan, the new wave of democracy is sweeping the bad spirit of dictatorship away.Its a new dawn in these countries.
Friday at 7:04pm ·



Cash Willis   Thats Ghadaffi for you
Friday at 7:38pm · Like · 1 person



Ama       ‎@Augustine I totally agree with you.
Saturday at 12:57pm ·


Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

In as much as Colonel Ghadaffi is an eccentric nutter, and I want him removed. The US should also advise their best friend with one of the worst Human Right record in the world, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia to give up monarchy. I hate d hypocrisy of d United states. They protect brutality when they want to in against d Palestinians and against d women of Saudi Arabia. Despite d talk of democracy by d US, they display a flagrant disregard for d intellect of pipo outside US. Free Libya, free Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, and then free GAZA (PALESTINE)!
Saturday at 7:18pm · 


Ama        ‎@Kingzley good point but until the masses come under one voice crying out for change am afraid those in power to effect change would ignore n devote their resources to those pressing areas of need. It took Libya good 41years to realize they were backward in terms of governance. The same Ghadaffi was a good reference for African leaders who believe they have to be strong men n ignoring the importance of building a strong Institution, system n governance which involves respect for those who elected you into power.
Saturday at 7:37pm · 



Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'  Spot on, dats why I said earlier in ur post dat African leaders are Africa's shame. They are a disgrace to politicians d world over, of which they are no part of. African leaders are PHONEYticians.
Saturday at 7:40pm · 



Ama          Change will not be initiated by America as they have their own issues to deal with n not very perfect. However, those who have being marred from past dictatorship, poverty, stagnancy and held captive in all ramifications need to understand they have a problem. Then only can one begin to map out strategies on how to get back their right and territory. I find Ghadaffi,s tenor, behaviour, antics very similar to King Saul in the bible. It makes the holy bible so real, and true to say events are not based on fiction.
Saturday at 7:45pm · Like · 1 person




Roseline 

Ghadaffi sits in office for 41yrs?who is to be blamed??? the civilians or the economy itself,well unfortunately you can not separate the civilians from the economy, its obvious that there is a circular system of rule in Libya, if Ghadaffi has sat in office uptill now without anything being done, then i must say that the enthusiasm to remove him from office is great! but the timing is wrong, it is now that the people have the boldness to riot against their leader,because they have seen what had happened in Egypt,where were the people of Libya for the past 41years!!!they sat in silence all this while,who have been the people voting for the past 41yrs???ghosts!very funny,do the people expect that Ghadaffi would easily dust his feets and just leave the office without a fight??the people had left him in office for the past 41yrs comfortably without doing anything about it,why is now that they have decided to initiate a change?of course ghadaffi had thought that the people where fully satisfied with his system of rule,and yet did nothing to change so the people constantly voted for him,the future of Libya lies in the voice of the people,and yet the people of Libya have the guts to say that he his wicked,greedy,when they had given an open arms to captivity!for the heart of man is wicked,who can know it?we should not blame ghadaffi only for his actions,but the people of libya as well because they have been in active participation in whatever problems they are facing now,all these are rooted up with the sole decision of keeping him in office for 41yrs,the youths can only help if their votes are not corrupted with money!but a flawless voting system which only God can handle.
Yesterday at 5:17pm · Like · 1 person



Ama 


@ Roseline remarkably true. It reminds one of the Israelites who were held captive for significant 430 years, of course their behavior put them into captivity. It Is shocking even when it was time for them to get out of captivity some wanted to stay. When they were finally out of captivity, just minor problems would trigger complaints and a small prayer for reinstatement of the previous status quo. That is human beings for you our wants and needs are insatiable. We are still finding it difficult to understand the difference between having a need and want. It is this obvious fact that has led to greed, killing, lack of morals and devilishly shallow behavior. It is no wonder why the networks were revealing the fact Ghadaffi had promised his supporters a handsome package and more to come. Some will prefer to satisfy an immediate need without complete assessment of the cost of the forgone alternative. This is elementary economics, which has practical underlinings. However, most choose to ignore. I ask, where do we go from there. This is a complicated problem which, has plagued different parts of the world. A feasible philosophy which institutions, organisations and Individuals, have totally ignored. I find any decision you take today will always have a forgone alternative. What is the cost of that forgone alternative, if giving the chance to reverse a long-standing decision to keep voting in the same Man into power for 41 years would you do the same thing taking back the hands of time by 41years? That is the problem. The same reason why people are still suffering and it is no rocket science you pay for a wrong decision. However, it is only fools who do not learn from past mistakes, striving daily in an opposite direction altogether different from the path which waged high-cost implications in the first place.

Yesterday at 6:04pm ·




Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

@ Roseline/ Dont blame the Libyan people for leaving Colonel Ghadafi in power for 41 yrs, he ruled with an iron fist and he is the most unpredictable person I ever saw. He keeps even the US guessing. U (Roseline) would never start a revolution against someone like colonel Ghadafi. Lets be honest here, a tragedy is only a tragedy unless its close. Libyans were emboldened by what they saw in Egypt, its not as if they weren't tired of the tyrant. The question is not will Colonel Ghadafi be toppled? But how much damage will Colonel Ghadafi and his elite forces (tribal force) who are well trained inflict on Libya and her people. Colonel Ghadafi and his family have no where to go, so he's prepared to fight to d death. Lastly Roseline, why didnt u blame Nigerians for re electing Obasanjo? There are no elections in Africa, its just formality.
Yesterday at 6:43pm ·


Roseline 

Kinzley first of all,has any president in nigeria ruled for 41yrs in office???who elected and voted obsanjo out???what kind of economy do we have in nigeria??? if the Egyptians had no problems,would the libyans have rioted??? you say that Ghadafi has no where to go what a flimsy excuse!and that on the other hand is impossible, what has ghadafi been doing for the past 41yrs then if he had no where to go to,if i may ask you are you a libyian or a nigerian,have you been to libya before to experience for yourself how ghadafi ruled,we read the newspapers and swallow both hook,line and sinker,you think is everything you hear and read that is true!go to libya and experience things for yourself before you come here and tell me he ruled with an iron fist!you say that he rules with an iron fist and the people shut their mouths for 41yrs without any complains till now,they were using the egyptians as a form of salvation to their captivity,thinking that that is the easy way out,the tragedy you talk of was brought upon the libyans by themselves,and am very sure that right now some of the libyans would be contemplating why they had started the riot in the first place!
Yesterday at 7:26pm · 


Kingzley 'Sleekkilla' 

@ Roseline/ Am afraid we are getting our wires crossed here, let me clarify two things u misinterpreted. That he ruled with an iron fist and that Colonel Ghadafi has got no where to go. In no way am i a devil's advocate or holding brief forColonel Ghadafi.

Now, when a leader rules with an iron fist. The people of that country stand in awe of him. Because they are intimidated with torture and death. How do u expect anyone to question a dictator without thinking of death? Come on, lets be considerate. Those people werent happy seeing him rule for 41 years.

Secondly, that I said he has got no where to go means he knows he wont be accepted anywhere and he wud fight to keep his position. I didnt say he shud remain in power.

Am Nigerian, and have been to the most dangerous place which is Gaza. If u want to see suffering take a trip to Gaza at ur own risk, thats if the Jews will allow you in. What surprises me most about you people talking about freedom is you avoid the Issue of Gaza.

As for who elected Obasanjo for 2nd term, nobody.  The election was fraud. Show the Libyans example by standing up to Nigerian crooked politicians and police first. Before blaming the Libyan people for keeping him there. I reckon you would never do that, because you are talking from either an airconditioning room or office.
Lastly, d one question I want you to answer with honesty is CAN U START AN UPRISING AGAINST OBASANJO, TALK MORE OF TYRANT LIKE COLONEL GHADAFI?
Yesterday at 8:04pm · 


Roseline 

"laughing my ass off." lmao!! so I don't understand what ruling with an iron fist means or he has no where to go....there was absolutely nothing to misinterpret in what you had stated above, I clearly read and understood, and its obvious that you are comparing the rule of government in Nigeria with libya,and gaza,if you think they are the same then whats the point of the arguement , you yourself know that Nigeria would never have allowed Obsanjo to rule for 41yrs!
Yesterday at 8:18pm · 


Kingzley 'Sleekkilla' 

Lol...Nigeria would have not allowed Obasanjo to rule for 41 years? Would you have stopped him, is d question u avoided once again. And how come u were around when IBB and Abacha clung to power and we didnt see Nigerians starting an up rising?  The only one that happen was just for one or two days which was in 1991. Don't compare Nigerians, with the Arabs. Nigerians are cowards...now, I meant that in a nice way.
Yesterday at 8:34pm · 


Roseline

 I asked you a question which you didn't answer,has there been any president in Nigeria who ruled for 41yrs??? I personally only can not dictate the ruling system of Nigeria,and that alone requires the votes of millions of Nigerians,that is why there is a voting system which has always not been corrupt in the past years,until the rain of obsanjo!
Yesterday at 8:43pm · 


Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

Hahahahaha! Voting system? Please dont make me laugh off my skin. You are obviously new or haven't been to Nigeria. Lmao! Come to Nigeria and face reality, and then you will know that candidates are forced on Nigerians and the winner is known even before going to the polls without Nigerians making a noise about. Unless, am the one who lives in a different Nigeria from yours.

And to answer your question, no. No Nigerian leader has ruled for 41 years, and if anyone wishes to do that, there's nothing U, ME or anyone can do about it. Now, can you please answer my question so we can stop going back?
Yesterday at 8:55pm ·


Roseline  

I answered your question already, read my previous comment properly!
Yesterday at 8:57pm · 


Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

Well, I fail to see where u did. Anyway, if u say so. Nice chatting with u dear, I enjoyed your company. Have pleasant dreams and sleep among angels.
Yesterday at 9:09pm · 


Ama 

@Roseline and Kingzley thanks for your contributions. I agree with Kingzley that Africa as a continent is corrupt. Who is responsible? What can be done to remove the mark of Slavery from Africa and getting well positioned on a global Map. I believe we are all responsible for the problem in Africa. We need to examine our conscience as human beings, what do we do on a daily basis that has led us into captivity. It is very straightforward. The Libyans voted in a tyrant to rule them for 41 years, nobody wants to die and people love their lives. A situation were I can save my life and my family totally ignoring the outer shell called "Society". So many have practiced complacency for years. It is no-longer working. Hence, the uprising and conflict in Egypt. The Libyans have seen this worked for Egypt. Therefore let us seize the opportunity and make hay while the sun shines and follow our Egyptian brothers to get out of slavery. No Man is above the law and with time those who have contributed significantly to the decadence in Africa will pay for it in due time. Coming back to your question Kingzley on who can match up to Obasanjo? It is very simple of course GOD but he uses human beings like you and I. Obasanjo is not above the law as a matter of fact if he was such a great Man or a dictator why did he not avoid going into prison in the first place. This is a period where so many events are unpredictable and many more to come. He who laughs last laughs best and those who have been stripped bare by poverty without their volition would laugh so hard later. Africa would not continue this way and so many strong men would be stripped off their ammunitions and ranks in whatever society they belong.
14 hours ago · Like · 1 person


Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'  ‎

@ Ama/ Very true, God is d greatest. They saw that fact in General Abacha's case, thats what even saved Obasanjo's life.
13 hours ago · 


Ama  

We have exhausted all the possible angles looking at another hot matter on Queen Ama's Food For Thought. Thank you so much to all my contributors, Roseline, Kingzley, Augustine and Lindsey. This would not be possible without you all. Well going back to the house I am sure you have learnt so much from this weekends subject matter. Food for thought on the list is Freedom, Growth, Unity and Progress in Africa at all cost but with the support of the youth.  It is unbelievable Libya, Tunisia and Egypt have found the cure to "Sit Tight Syndrome", Who is Responsible? See you all same time next week.
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