Masturbation on the Increase.



Hot Matters With Queen Ama

New Year resolutions are completely hopeless and find we very often stick to those things we are given grace to relinquish without so much energy but by merely saying the word, acknowledging is not by ones power or might but by the spirit which makes one a better person on a daily basis. It is better to worry on one's ability to equal one's opportunity on a daily basis than setting a standard for the whole year.

Today: 8:45am

 Kwabena from Accra:  Good Morning

QUEEN AMA:

                         

                            Hello 

Kwabena from Accra:                How are u doing?

QUEEN AMA:





                              Very well

Kwabena from Accra:         Happy New Year

QUEEN AMA:

                              Same to you.





Kwabena from Accra:      Ama, i hope u are very strong  
                                                  in   Christ? 

QUEEN AMA:


                                 What do you think?

Kwabena from Accra:                           Yeah

QUEEN AMA:

 Why ask if I am very strong in Christ?

Kwabena from Accra:                            I need ur help


QUEEN AMA:




                                   Go ahead

 Kwabena from Accra:                            I have challenges with

                                                          masturbation. Am shy to talk  

                                                          to      anyone about it.



QUEEN AMA:



                                    Are you a married Man?

Kwabena from Accra:                             Yeah, got married recently

QUEEN AMA:



                                  What do you think of when 

                 you  engage in the art of masturbation?

Kwabena from Accra:       Am addicted to sex Always feel
                                                     like doing it.           

                        

QUEEN AMA:

                        Does your wife grant you sex

              when you need it most?

Kwabena from Accra:                  Any time

  

QUEEN AMA:

                      Do you enjoy sex with her?

Kwabena from Accra:               Yes I do

QUEEN AMA:

                     Good, problem half solved 

QUEEN AMA:



Do you get the fullest satisfaction during and after sex with your wife?

Kwabena from Accra:       Yes the problem is



QUEEN AMA:



When you masturbate do you think of your wife? Be honest with me.

Kwabena from Accra:   Sometimes Or some sexual scenes.

                                                                                               

QUEEN AMA:

I am glad your wife grants you the fulfillment    you both get from enshrining your love through sex. However, masturbating and thinking of other sex scenes which your wife is not aware of needs to be dealt with.

Kwabena from Accra:         When am out, am so busy i don't      

                                       think about sex that much But?

QUEEN AMA:

Have you heard of idleness is the devils workshop? 

Kwabena from Accra:              Yeah



Kwabena from Accra:  When am alone in my room, i start   to  think about sex and i become horny, then i start to play with my self.

QUEEN AMA:

Why don't you call your wife to join you in the play leading to the main art itself. Then it is no longer Masturbation. You are trying so hard to excite yourself when you have what you need. Ask your wife to touch you in those places that get you so horny. While you touch your wife in those places that get her horny.

Kwabena from Accra:  At times when am talking to a lady friend on phone, i become horny and start to play with myself

        .

QUEEN AMA:

I see the problem now. Do you mind telling your lady friends how much you care about your wife. The conversations you have with your lady friends create the environment for sexual arousal. You need to be clear of your objectives when you pick up the phone to call any woman outside of your wife. Should your conversations be professional you need not think of touching yourself. Here is what I think, you already thought of those strange women in a way you think of your wife when you have sex. Once you pick up the phone to speak with them you start pleasuring.

QUEEN AMA:

        
              I hope am helping this morning?


Kwabena from Accra:       When am alone in the room, I               feel    for sex and it's hard for me to control my self.

QUEEN AMA:

Does your woman know how much you love sex?

Kwabena from Accra:          Yes u are really helping me



QUEEN AMA:


                Good

Kwabena from Accra:         Never got the chance to discuss it

  

QUEEN AMA:

Do you have children yet?

Kwabena from Accra:               Not yet 



QUEEN AMA:



                           Perfect

Kwabena from Accra:                She's 6months pregnant


QUEEN AMA:



I see but hope you did not start feeling this way when your wife went on leave from the usual bed routine?



Kwabena from Accra:         Sorry she called me
                                      She's leaving for work



QUEEN AMA:

Good you are sensitive to your wife and making every attempt to stop every bad habit that will hinder your good relationship. You see your wife is 6months pregnant and going to work.

 What a hard-working woman

Kwabena from Accra:     Thx

 

QUEEN AMA:

You have not answered me as I know it is more difficult for a pregnant woman to have sex in the usual and exciting way she will normally do when she was not double  and having to cater for three people including herself, a husband and a child.

Kwabena from Accra:      I didn't get ur question so can u

                                    pls come back? Thx

QUEEN AMA:

 Did the masturbation problem get worse when your wife couldn't give you the usual bed life changing experience.



QUEEN AMA:

Your wife is pregnant and has to be sensitive to the child in the womb. Therefore cannot give you the normal bed angle. How does this make you feel and having to wait for 9 months?         Has  the Masturbation increased?

Kwabena from Accra:     It has always been worst

QUEEN AMA:



I am happy you acknowledge your problem and not killing your wife for it

Kwabena from Accra:  I started masturbating at age 17    and I will be 32 Feb

 

QUEEN AMA:

Happy Birthday in advance but I am sure Masturbation will be history before you clock 32.

Kwabena from Accra:     Thx




QUEEN AMA:

Most bad habits are mind borne and carried out in the head. I believe once you can control your mind and head, you can put your hands to use when it is necessary. I am happy you a re married and your wife is very active both sexually and otherwise. You need to decree into your life regularly saying I will not masturbate today, when those thoughts come say this " I shall not live by masturbation but by every word which makes me closer to a good woman called my wife. Do not be afraid to tell your wife you are horny and the frequency at which it comes. Once she understands this she will be the one touching you more frequently than you expect.

Kwabena from Accra:    We really enjoy sex together and 

                                  she takes the initiative most of  the time.

QUEEN AMA:

 I am really happy for both of you. You see your wife is dutiful, but you need to help yourself in this regard. It could ruin your marriage, think of all the beautiful things you could loose from continuous practice of Masturbation. It is just a bad habit and you must seek to address this on a daily basis speaking into your life. You alone can help yourself, disengage your mind from those things that lead you into touching yourself.

Kwabena from Accra:          Thank u Ama

QUEEN AMA:



                               Take care.

Kwabena from Accra:         Have a nice day If i may  

                                                      ask, how  old is Queen Ama?

QUEEN AMA:

Age has nothing to do with divine wisdom coming from above.

QUEEN AMA:



I hope you do not mind that I publish our conversation but your name will not show. only the trend of our conversation to help others who have not taken that bold step like you this morning.

Kwabena from Accra:                Thanks

Kwabena from Accra:                Promise me one thing

Kwabena from Accra:                Go ahead

Kwabena from Accra:             U will not publish my name. 

QUEEN AMA:

                                   Of course.

Kwabena from Accra:      I will tell u more about some of
                                                   the  nasty things I used to do.
                                                   Thx so much.

We all struggle in getting rid of those bad habits but how we go about it, and the priority level in ones life is a different ball game.

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Why is Masturbation on the Increase?

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