Saturday, 30 June 2012

AMA... Passion For Excellence

AMA... Passion For Excellence

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Saturday, 23 June 2012

Humility and Love


Food For Thought: Humility & Love!

You cannot rule for too long, if you do not know how to manage people. My icon, Jesus-Christ had followers who needed to be totally transformed . He knew some of them were traitors, liars and doubters. However, he still worked with them to reach his expected goal. He knew some of them would betray, lie and doubt, but yet he did not withdraw his love from anyone of them. Jesus-Christ was able to conquer the world because he had God's love within him.

What about you? Do you have the love of God within you and can you work with everyone like Jesus-Christ?

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Leadership

Food For Thought: Humility & Love!

You cannot rule for too long, if you do not know how to manage people. My icon, Jesus-Christ had followers who needed to be totally transformed . He knew some of them were traitors, liars and doubters. However, he still worked with them to reach his expected goal. He knew some of them would betray, lie and doubt, but yet he did not withdraw his love from anyone of them. Jesus-Christ was able to conquer the world because he had God's love within him.

What about you? Do you have the love of God within you and can you work with everyone like Jesus-Christ?

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Friday, 22 June 2012

Let Us Talk About Sex.



Food For Thought: Let Us Talk About Sex!

The lord said to me look at yourself now in the mirror and see how young and beautiful you look. Your youth has now been renewed beyond this world. Why? You have kept yourself pure and stayed away from materialistic things, but pursued the spiritual. Many may laugh at you now, but you would surely laugh last and rule over them because you have honored me with your body, soul and spirit.

Ladies and Gentlemen, the day I decided to dedicate my temple for holy things my body sings a different tune. Sex is good for what it was designed for. It is a fool that shoots wrongly in wrong places too. You have so much to lose when you have sex in the wrong places and before marriage. You can never carry the true power of God when you honor Satan with your body.

You can retrace your steps now before it is too late. You must honor the Lord with your body, soul and spirit.


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The Enemy of Your Destiny and Progress

Food For Thought: The Enemy of Your Destiny & Progress!

Do not look elsewhere for the enemy. Do not waste time fighting the external enemy for the internal is more dangerous and knows most of your secrets. It is always within and not external. The enemy within works with the external to conclude a failed task, if you are a true child of God.

The psalmist cried out: "But it is you, an equal of mine, my bosom friend, my companion whose fellowship I enjoyed as we walked together in the house of God". The psalmist understood all along his most wicked and dangerous enemies where not the external but the internal.

Matthew 10:21
And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death.

Luke 12:53
They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”

The matter would soon be resolved, but you must know how to pray targeted prayers that hits the right place.

Have a lovely weekend and do not think too much. I have now assisted you with the source of your problems.















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Purity

Food For Thought: Let Us Talk About Sex!

The lord said to me look at yourself now in the mirror and see how young and beautiful you look. Your youth has been renewed. Why? You have kept yourself pure and stayed away from materialistic things, but pursued the spiritual. Many may laugh at you now, but you would surely laugh last and rule over them because you have honored me with your body, soul and spirit.

Ladies and Gentlemen, the day I decided to dedicate my temple for holy things my body sings a different tune. Sex is good for what it was designed. It is a fool that shoots wrongly in wrong places too. You have so much to lose when you have sex in the wrong places and before marriage. You can never carry the true power of God when you honor Satan with your body.

You can retrace your steps now before it is too late. You must honor the Lord with your body, soul and spirit.

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Thursday, 21 June 2012

Marriage: Increase or Retrogression.


Marriage: Increase or Retrogression.

Marriage should not make you less, but it should make you better. If being married has set you back then you never married your true soul mate. Sometimes, we settle for less because we wish to tick the box and join the band of unhappy and unfulfilled men and women struggling in relationships not joined by God, but by Man.

1. Pray and fast for only your soul mate and do not walk into a union because it ticks the box of being married.
2. It is very easy to lust and lie then call it true love. Here is what would quickly find you out if it is true love, lust or lies: when storms begin to rage.
3. A man should not borrow to buy his wife an engagement ring. A Man should be proud of his house, car, job, finances when he meets with the woman God has asked him to marry.
4. A man needs to be in the presence of God to hear from God and not Satan about his wife.
5. A Man in the presence of God does not need his friends to manage his home.
6. Marriage is a good thing when you truly find that one person God designed for you from the beginning.

I pray that God would grant all single men and women their true soul mates and those married, but with the wrong partners may he heal their union and make it right in Jesus-name. Amen














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Tuesday, 19 June 2012

Leadership

Food For Thought: Leadership!

You do not beg for leadership as empowerment comes from above. You must receive a call; answer to a call among many others and then you must be chosen.

You do not beg for leadership!














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Sunday, 17 June 2012

The Kingdom of God.


Food For Thought: Are You A Model?

A man asked, are you a model. I smiled and said yes I am, but I model for the kingdom of God. He said no wonder you are so beautiful. I said even my master, Jesus-Christ is a very handsome man and I belong to his family. Therefore, you can expect nothing-less in the mighty name of Jesus-Christ. You better get use to this name and brand called the kingdom of God with Jesus-Christ our CEO. Halleluyah!

















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Monday, 11 June 2012

Flee From An Abusive Man- Part 1


Food For Thought: Flee From an abusive Man!

Many women lie in psychiatric wards because of emotional and mental abuse. Are you a woman? Do not allow any Man devalue you for anything as long as you are holy and righteous. Women have not understood their power as they are not slaves.




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Sunday, 10 June 2012

Dreams and Favour


Food For Thought: Dreams and Favour from God; plan in your head; execution from your hands, and strength in your gait.

You can do it! Go for it.

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Restoration

Food For Thought: The new BodyByVi!

My youth has been renewed and I feel so energized.www.vigor4life.bodybyvi.com.















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Friday, 8 June 2012

What Can Unite The World?




Love shared between the uncomplicated and complicated one.

Love divided amongst the rich and poor.

Love made so easy but yet complex with its recipients not accustomed to receiving it in its pure form. 



A flowing stream of love hindered by evil hearts saturated in guilt.

Love flowing from the well spring of life.

A strong wind of love raising the dead back from life.

A dynamite of love uniting families, communities and nations making it just one.

The love so bright recognisable from afar.

A vision of love wearing that peaceful smile in your sleep, but waking up to reality not to get it.

Love, Love, Love, appreciate it when you get it, nourish it every second, utilise it until your last breathe.

Wake up to love; bathe in love; dine in love; reflect in love; share in love; give in love; walk in love; transact in love; make a request in love; compete in love; and work in love.

Close your eyes and just imagine if Love was truly the pinnacle we all strived for and not money.

Wake up from unfulfilled dreams; welcome to the world of fame, competition, struggle, hate, pain, disaster, bloodshed, witchcraft, poverty amidst plenty, sickness and diseases.

America, Europe, Africa, Asia, Australia and Antartica is one not worn out from all these vice.

It is time for change gravitating towards love; let us make it a reality and not a mirage.






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Tuesday, 5 June 2012

Divine Protection

Food For Thought: Another Escape From Untimely Death!

Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers them from it all. God of Queen Ama there is nobody like you and let all men begin to worship you. The evil pattern must be broken in our families, societies and continent. Africa is time for liberation.















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Thursday, 31 May 2012

The Fear Called Greatnes

Food For Thought: The Fear Called Greatness!

When God has deposited so much in you to liberate nations and not just families there would be a period of testing, but your ability to stay faithful to the end cannot be compromised for anything.

Here are the key principles for getting rid of the fear of Greatness.

1. Do not hate anyone, but only sympathize with them for trying so hard to steal from you.

2. You need to understand the game to win the game, but many start what they cannot finish and end up in shame, sickness and sometimes their lives are even cut short.













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The Fear Called Greatness


When God has deposited so much in you to liberate nations and not just families there would be a period of testing, but your ability to stay faithful to the end cannot be compromised for anything.

Here are the key principles for getting rid of the fear of Greatness.

1. Do not hate anyone, but only sympathize with them for trying so hard to steal from you.

2. You need to understand the game to win the game, but many start what they cannot finish and end up in shame, sickness and sometimes their lives are even cut short.














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Counterfeit versus Original

Food For Thought: Envy!

Envy is what drives a man to kill, steal and destroy in order to live another man's purpose. The counterfeit has nothing to live on for too long because they are not the original.

Who are you? Are you the original or counterfeit? Are you trying to live another Man's dream or carry out their mission. Why steal,, destroy and kill in order to take what does not belong to you?

Wait for the appointed time!















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Wednesday, 30 May 2012

The Fear Called Greatness


Food For Thought: The Fear Called Greatness!

Finding your purpose is not about others telling you what career to pursue. It is about having a deep relationship with God and he will lead you there.














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Sunday, 27 May 2012

Seek God First.


Food For Thought: Seek him first and you will find the way.

I now feel so energized and empowered to do just your work. I am so grateful and thank you for everything. When God calls you something must change. I Love you all.














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Inner Transformation


Food For Thought: Your Life Should Help transform others.

Today, my colleague 7 years ago from Citibank came to see me. He was amazed with the level of transformation in my own life. I spoke into his life without even knowing what he was going through at the moment. He declared before he left that he has still not found his true life purpose even with all his degrees and good position in the bank. I prayed with him and he accepted Jesus-Christ as his only master and the way. I thank God for using me to touch another soul without even planning it. Your life is the only testimony you can use to tell others about Jesus-Christ. Your life must bear witness and there must be a 360 degree turn. I love you all.















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Sunday, 20 May 2012

AppleBlossom


Apple Blossom!

It is amazing what God is doing with the apple tree behind my house. It is exactly what is happening to me right now. It is a period to blossom and shine like never before. A period to relax and shed off evil load from your destiny and waiting patiently for that fruitful season equivalent to your promised land. Wow!
Photo: Food For Thought: Apple Blossom!

 It is amazing what God is doing with the apple tree behind my house. It is exactly what is happening to me right now. It is a period to blossom and shine like never before. A period to relax and shed off evil load  from your destiny and waiting patiently for that fruitful season equivalent to your promised land. Wow!

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Tuesday, 15 May 2012

Where Are Your Kids Headed?


It is better for a Man to tie a sling around his neck jumping into the deep waters than to lead this child am holding to sin. Watch what you do in front of kids and what you say to them are just.
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Monday, 14 May 2012

New Beginnings

Food For Thought: New beginnings are so good especially when you reunite with your first love and close all evil doors. Go back to your first love as true love is a wonderful feeling when you meet with it.















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Sunday, 13 May 2012

Can A Man Become A Woman?


Food For Thought~ I wonder what the world would have become without women being part of it. I find no matter what men do, and evolution has to offer a man can never become a woman.
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Wednesday, 9 May 2012

Where is God's Own Country headed?




Yes treat them equally , but true obedience comes from obeying the laws of God.

President Obama who has just said today, “it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same-sex couples should be able to get married." He has now reversed his long-standing decision and finally approved gay marriages.

Wow! there is nothing new under the sun for those who have been close enough to feel its impact burning and giving light before now. The president with all due respect reminds me of Moses in the bible who had approved the divorce bill for the people because of the hardness of their hearts as mentioned by Jesus-Christ when the pharisees tried to put him to test concerning the issue of divorce. Moses did not make it to the promised land even though he led the people out of bondage. Joshua replaced Moses who now led the people into the promised land. Today, we all suffer from these alternatives causing instability and destruction to divorce our husbands or wives on whatever grounds we can make up for our frailties.

Funny enough Moses did not have an Egyptian birth certificate but lived in the Egyptian palace called white house devoted to the Kings and Queens of the Land. 

Moses was chosen and equipped by God in all ramifications and to the fear of so many who could not understand how it happened.


I remember when Obama won the presidential election, his inauguration as the 44th president of the united states, which took place on Tuesday, January 20th, 2009. The whole world stood up including those fast asleep to cheer him up. I felt the shivers and awe of God in the air. How did it happen? A (Black Man) foreigner made it to the white house, they said. History has been made! Yes, history has been made! 
Michelle looking radiant wore the color, green which depicts nature and represents a woman chosen by God in his utmost creativity, power and splendor.

Look around! How many families are truly tight, together, and dine in Love. Our societies are falling apart from the wrong mistakes of our heads. I wonder what we did be teaching our kids on what is truly right and wrong based on the laws instructed by God to be passed down from generation to generation. It is quite clear choose curses or blessings. Nobody can be forced to choose curses or blessings as every man to himself on that glorious day.

I tell you this is not what our father who created the heavens and earth or the God of America meant for his people. However, man's flesh would always seek for what is easy and pleasurable, but later fills up the mouth with sand. 

Sometimes, we open up our borders knowingly for the enemies who becomes more powerful taking our peace and God given resources to dominate and rule for a specific period. God watches and says in his usual patient and silent tone, but I gave you options of blessings or curses. Today, you have chosen curses for yourself. We had been searching for years for late Osama Bin Laden and was recently given the victory when he was sent to the land of no return. Total victory lies in disarming the enemies completely with no hope of seeing day break or rising from the dust. Are we surprised at AL Qaeda's new level of sophistication where they are still powerful and able to make bombs not detected by the so called airport machines equipped to uncover all dangerous alarms.

Tomorrow, when another Leader comes onboard, which would happen soon he did make reference to the fact President Obama approved gay marriages in the first place. Evolution and our Children should not change the laws of God. We might as well make murder legal as we should not treat those who kill and those who do not kill any different. 

America called God's own country where are you headed with all these reckless policies. How would you show God truly dwells in your midst? It is written, through holiness and being obedient to his commands. Evolution cannot and would never change what God has hated from the beginning when he created Man, which is outright disobedience to natural things meant for simple people. Man created simple is fast becoming too complex to the detriment of generations yet unborn.

Perhaps, the son of Man who truly owns the United States of America is on his way, but the signs are there, and many would be caught in the middle of those gay marriages, opposite sex marriages, divorce, killings, adultery and fornication. Who is the next president of United States of America?





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Sunday, 6 May 2012

"As I Look Homeward"


What are your experiences as you look back home?





Many miss home where they grew up especially when far away from it. However, it calls for concern when you meet people who have hateful, pitiable and unforgettable experiences, which can be traced back to their mother's belief and upbringing meant to uplift and not downgrade. When they recollect their childhood near death experiences, you wonder how they survived receiving one form of abuse from family meant to shield them and societies meant to provide true Justice.

I met with Elizabeth Mosun, author of “As I Look Homeward” who shared her real life experiences with me. It brought me to the point of tears for some dark practices, which still exist.

Here, is an in-depth interview on her Journey so far.


Queen Ama:  Why the title as “I look homeward”?


Elizabeth Mosun Wine: I suffered from severe depression and ended up in a mental home due to problems I encountered socially and all the obstacles that came my way having gone through one disaster after another, which sadly can be traced back to my home in Africa growing up as a child. I had near death experiences and was downgraded by so many devastating events and obstacles in my life. Many of them you would find in my book as I trace them back home to my Mother who left me to grow with my grand-mother at a young age. 

Queen Ama: You said they were five of you from your mother, but you rarely lived with your parents, but was made to reside in your grandmother’s home. Why?

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: Then as a child I did not understand what it was all about, but obeyed my parents when I was dropped off with my grand-mother. However, my other 4 siblings lived with them. I never really enjoyed the privilege of making decisions for myself. I was pushed from pillar to post, as my beloved father, mother and doting grandmother alternated in terms of who looked after me. I neither had any disability as a child nor was I the sickly type. Usually before I went to bed –almost every day at 6p.m- I made up little songs on my own. I cannot now remember the tunes, but some of the words I can recall:

I am five years old

And I was born in a town called Mopa.

I was taken to Egbe,

I was taken to Kano,

And I was taken to Mopa again.

I do not belong in Mopa.

One day I will go to where I belong, 

This is with my mother and father. 

Egbe was my father’s town. I carried on singing my song every day at 6p.m behind the back of our house at the dispensary. I stopped when I started going to kindergarten.

Queen Ama: I read your book; You were so sad growing up as a child into adulthood, where you dealt with heavy issues at a mature age.

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: Hmm, You are right facing numerous obstacles in reality from growing up to the point I migrated from home to London. Then, my first broken marriage at age 23 with my boy-friend who lived in Canada to another broken marriage where I now have 2 children. All sorts of things went on. My second cousin once exposed his body to me and wanted me to have sex with him, referring to me as his wife. I was six years old, and fully dressed. I didn’t respond, knowing intuitively there was something wrong about this. Nobody had ever told me about sex, or the facts of life. I did not tell my grandmother about this incident, for fear of her flogging me, and her not believing my side of the story. But it remained in my memory, all I felt was anger towards my mother for sending me to live with my grandmother and exposing me to these things at such an early age.

Queen Ama: I guess at age 6 nobody certainly should be teaching you about sex. Children should remain innocent and kept from such things as sex until they are old enough to manage their emotions. Yet, there you were being introduced gradually into what adults are discouraged not to get into until they are married.

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: Although It was very strange; I was scared to tell my grandmother what had transpired between my cousin and me.

Queen Ama: You had mentioned in the book, your  granny had flogged you so hard on your thighs and applied chilli peppers on the fresh wounds. You were also poisoned and as a result, rushed to a specialist hospital. Why? 


Elizabeth Mosun Wine: Laughs…. I took and ate smoked fish without asking permission. She believed I had stolen it, and so punished me severely. I still have a big scar on my thighs, which I repeatedly show to my own children. Another bad experience was when one of the patients alleged that my grandmother was always shouting at her, for no reason, and it got to the stage where this patient retaliated by punishing me. She gave me a poisoned orange cut into two halves, which I ate and became so ill that I lost consciousness. When I regained consciousness there were drips everywhere, with my nose and throat attached to tubes. My stomach had been pumped. My father had threatened to take whoever was responsible to court. My brother, Debo helped to identify the suspect, as I couldn’t remember anything myself. The suspect confessed to attempting to kill me because of my grandmother’s attitude towards her. My grandmother felt so guilty she took all the blame on herself. My father suggested I should come back to live with him and my mother. He was still very angry, and said it had never been his idea in the first place for me to live with my grandmother- It had been my mother’s. I thought that maybe, just maybe, my parents didn’t like me enough – not as they liked my sister – and that was why I lived with my grandmother and not with them.


Queen Ama: I am just wondering, if your mum was not missing you and did not see anything wrong getting educated in the village with limited exposure, as opposed to the city. Meanwhile, your other siblings lived with her in the city?

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: During the school holidays my grandmother and I went to Kaduna in the northern part of Nigeria. To visit my parents who now lived there. I can remember my father complaining about the standard of education I was getting through living with my grandmother. My overall lifestyle also concerned him. In fact there was constant argument over my welfare. My father would say to my grand-mother that he had had enough of my living with her, and that he wanted her to hand me back. He threatened to take drastic action if my grandmother refused to comply with his wishes. My mother always chose to stay quiet over the matter, which filled me with mixed emotions. 

Queen Ama: What was your mum,s excuse for the negative treatment over the years? 


Elizabeth Mosun Wine: I asked her since I was 5 years old were you really my mum, and why did you Isolate me with no motherly love from you? You asked me to call you sister and not mum. She alleged I gave her so much problem at birth and during pregnancy. Therefore, that hatred was also conceived and given birth alongside with me. 

She admitted to me when I was growing up as a young woman, I am lucky with the number of men asking me out. She got pregnant at the age of 17 and she had limited exposure with men. It made her bitter because she really could not key into the opportunities available to young men asking her out. 

When I made it known to her about young men interested in me, she would ask how did you get them to talk to you. You are very lucky, she said to me. I really did not get these opportunities. 

Queen Ama: What I gather and from all indication you were a strong target from birth for hatred and destruction?

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: Laughs!!! Yes. 

Queen Ama: Your book as “I look homewards” has been written in memory of your late Father, Mr Michael Abiodun and grandmother, Mrs Abigail Aborisade.


Elizabeth Mosun Wine: As a matter of fact, my mother died three years ago carrying the guilt with her. The memories she left for all five children especially me are hurtful and disgraceful. She had come to London to make confessions to me when she was struck with chronic diabetes and about to die. I remember when I was in the hospital in London, she made it clear to me they wanted to kill me. 

She was crying, but yet responsible for my wilderness journey all these years. She did assist with 100pounds when I was kicked out of my house because I could not afford to pay my accommodation, here in London. I spent many years suffering from depression where I got frustrated and was tired of taking medications. My mum had told my younger sister not to tell me she belonged to a dark group. My siblings were dealt with similar issues. 
At the later part of her life, she begged for forgiveness, and we became friends. I had no choice but to forgive her as a born-again Christian. However, those memories are unforgettable. 

Queen Ama: Wow, Your numerous and what it would almost look like endless problems were closely linked to the Woman, who asked you to call her sister and not mum, which the placenta that nourished you for 9 months developed?

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: I just could not understand it myself as was in shock when she confessed.

Queen Ama: You went to fend for yourself in one of the most popular and expensive cities, Lagos staying with a relative to raise funds to travel abroad. What happened at a little party that took place in the house where you lived?

Elizabeth Mosun Wine: I was raped twice by my 2 cousins at the age of 18. My older and younger cousins took turns and went into me.

Queen Ama: How did you manage to ascend above all the violent and traumatic events in your life?


Elizabeth Mosun Wine: As strong as my personality is I struggled along with life with my head up. In the past nineteen years, since I have been in England, my life has changed so much. I coped with the issues of interracial marriage and the problems this also threw at me.
I thank my God for my loving, caring, generous and responsible In-laws who helped me all along through my depression and with my children. I thank my husband who did the same for me as well, which I have overcome now. 



                                           

Before Elizabeth Mosun Wines' mother died she was moved from pillar to post year after year and ended up with severe depression for many years, which she has now overcome.
Elizabeth Mosun Wine immensely talented is working on her cookery book, which would be published before the end of this year.
Obstacles actually make you stronger, and not intimidating for those determined not to die undiscovered.

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