"An Unexpected Cure Found in 2011"

Queen Ama's Debate

Why would anyone want to stay in power for 41 years refusing to leave office by opening fire on protesters? Innocent Civilians have the right to vote in their leader, but does ones voice truly count in Africa. We are undoubtedly far from democracy and worst still a better positioning on the global map. How can the youths assist?

Lindsey 

The answer is simple, African leaders suffer from Sit-Tight Syndrome(STS), just check the history of leadership in Africa since independence & u'll see that only a FEW haven't been bitten by the bug that spreads this disease.

The method that some African countries are adopting to enforce their rights...PUBLIC PROTESTS, seem to be paying off: Egypt is a leading example, Libya, Algeria are following suit, & I hope someday, Zimbabweans too, will wake up from their slumber.

Friday at 6:14pm · Like · 1 person

Augustine   

Power intoxicates. African strong men heard Obama when he visited Ghana, he did mention that we dont need strong men but strong institutions. From Tunisia to Egypt and Libya through Cameroun , Uganda and Sudan, the new wave of democracy is sweeping the bad spirit of dictatorship away.Its a new dawn in these countries.

Friday at 7:04pm ·

Cash Willis   Thats Ghadaffi for you
Friday at 7:38pm · Like · 1 person

Ama       ‎@Augustine I totally agree with you.
Saturday at 12:57pm ·

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

In as much as Colonel Ghadaffi is an eccentric nutter, and I want him removed. The US should also advise their best friend with one of the worst Human Right record in the world, Kingdom of Saudi Arabia to give up monarchy. I hate d hypocrisy of d United states. They protect brutality when they want to in against d Palestinians and against d women of Saudi Arabia. Despite d talk of democracy by d US, they display a flagrant disregard for d intellect of pipo outside US. Free Libya, free Kingdom of Saudi Arabia, and then free GAZA (PALESTINE)!

Saturday at 7:18pm · 

Ama        ‎@Kingzley good point but until the masses come under one voice crying out for change am afraid those in power to effect change would ignore n devote their resources to those pressing areas of need. It took Libya good 41years to realize they were backward in terms of governance. The same Ghadaffi was a good reference for African leaders who believe they have to be strong men n ignoring the importance of building a strong Institution, system n governance which involves respect for those who elected you into power.

Saturday at 7:37pm · 

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'  Spot on, dats why I said earlier in ur post dat African leaders are Africa's shame. They are a disgrace to politicians d world over, of which they are no part of. African leaders are PHONEYticians.
Saturday at 7:40pm · 

Ama          Change will not be initiated by America as they have their own issues to deal with n not very perfect. However, those who have being marred from past dictatorship, poverty, stagnancy and held captive in all ramifications need to understand they have a problem. Then only can one begin to map out strategies on how to get back their right and territory. I find Ghadaffi,s tenor, behaviour, antics very similar to King Saul in the bible. It makes the holy bible so real, and true to say events are not based on fiction.

Saturday at 7:45pm · Like · 1 person

Roseline 

Ghadaffi sits in office for 41yrs?who is to be blamed??? the civilians or the economy itself,well unfortunately you can not separate the civilians from the economy, its obvious that there is a circular system of rule in Libya, if Ghadaffi has sat in office uptill now without anything being done, then i must say that the enthusiasm to remove him from office is great! but the timing is wrong, it is now that the people have the boldness to riot against their leader,because they have seen what had happened in Egypt,where were the people of Libya for the past 41years!!!they sat in silence all this while,who have been the people voting for the past 41yrs???ghosts!very funny,do the people expect that Ghadaffi would easily dust his feets and just leave the office without a fight??the people had left him in office for the past 41yrs comfortably without doing anything about it,why is now that they have decided to initiate a change?of course ghadaffi had thought that the people where fully satisfied with his system of rule,and yet did nothing to change so the people constantly voted for him,the future of Libya lies in the voice of the people,and yet the people of Libya have the guts to say that he his wicked,greedy,when they had given an open arms to captivity!for the heart of man is wicked,who can know it?we should not blame ghadaffi only for his actions,but the people of libya as well because they have been in active participation in whatever problems they are facing now,all these are rooted up with the sole decision of keeping him in office for 41yrs,the youths can only help if their votes are not corrupted with money!but a flawless voting system which only God can handle.

Yesterday at 5:17pm · Like · 1 person

Ama 

@ Roseline remarkably true. It reminds one of the Israelites who were held captive for significant 430 years, of course their behavior put them into captivity. It Is shocking even when it was time for them to get out of captivity some wanted to stay. When they were finally out of captivity, just minor problems would trigger complaints and a small prayer for reinstatement of the previous status quo. That is human beings for you our wants and needs are insatiable. We are still finding it difficult to understand the difference between having a need and want. It is this obvious fact that has led to greed, killing, lack of morals and devilishly shallow behavior. It is no wonder why the networks were revealing the fact Ghadaffi had promised his supporters a handsome package and more to come. Some will prefer to satisfy an immediate need without complete assessment of the cost of the forgone alternative. This is elementary economics, which has practical underlinings. However, most choose to ignore. I ask, where do we go from there. This is a complicated problem which, has plagued different parts of the world. A feasible philosophy which institutions, organisations and Individuals, have totally ignored. I find any decision you take today will always have a forgone alternative. What is the cost of that forgone alternative, if giving the chance to reverse a long-standing decision to keep voting in the same Man into power for 41 years would you do the same thing taking back the hands of time by 41years? That is the problem. The same reason why people are still suffering and it is no rocket science you pay for a wrong decision. However, it is only fools who do not learn from past mistakes, striving daily in an opposite direction altogether different from the path which waged high-cost implications in the first place.

Yesterday at 6:04pm ·

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

‎@ Roseline/ Dont blame the Libyan people for leaving Colonel Ghadafi in power for 41 yrs, he ruled with an iron fist and he is the most unpredictable person I ever saw. He keeps even the US guessing. U (Roseline) would never start a revolution against someone like colonel Ghadafi. Lets be honest here, a tragedy is only a tragedy unless its close. Libyans were emboldened by what they saw in Egypt, its not as if they weren't tired of the tyrant. The question is not will Colonel Ghadafi be toppled? But how much damage will Colonel Ghadafi and his elite forces (tribal force) who are well trained inflict on Libya and her people. Colonel Ghadafi and his family have no where to go, so he's prepared to fight to d death. Lastly Roseline, why didnt u blame Nigerians for re electing Obasanjo? There are no elections in Africa, its just formality.

Yesterday at 6:43pm ·

Roseline 

Kinzley first of all,has any president in nigeria ruled for 41yrs in office???who elected and voted obsanjo out???what kind of economy do we have in nigeria??? if the Egyptians had no problems,would the libyans have rioted??? you say that Ghadafi has no where to go what a flimsy excuse!and that on the other hand is impossible, what has ghadafi been doing for the past 41yrs then if he had no where to go to,if i may ask you are you a libyian or a nigerian,have you been to libya before to experience for yourself how ghadafi ruled,we read the newspapers and swallow both hook,line and sinker,you think is everything you hear and read that is true!go to libya and experience things for yourself before you come here and tell me he ruled with an iron fist!you say that he rules with an iron fist and the people shut their mouths for 41yrs without any complains till now,they were using the egyptians as a form of salvation to their captivity,thinking that that is the easy way out,the tragedy you talk of was brought upon the libyans by themselves,and am very sure that right now some of the libyans would be contemplating why they had started the riot in the first place!

Yesterday at 7:26pm · 

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla' 

‎@ Roseline/ Am afraid we are getting our wires crossed here, let me clarify two things u misinterpreted. That he ruled with an iron fist and that Colonel Ghadafi has got no where to go. In no way am i a devil's advocate or holding brief forColonel Ghadafi.

Now, when a leader rules with an iron fist. The people of that country stand in awe of him. Because they are intimidated with torture and death. How do u expect anyone to question a dictator without thinking of death? Come on, lets be considerate. Those people werent happy seeing him rule for 41 years.

Secondly, that I said he has got no where to go means he knows he wont be accepted anywhere and he wud fight to keep his position. I didnt say he shud remain in power.

Am Nigerian, and have been to the most dangerous place which is Gaza. If u want to see suffering take a trip to Gaza at ur own risk, thats if the Jews will allow you in. What surprises me most about you people talking about freedom is you avoid the Issue of Gaza.

As for who elected Obasanjo for 2nd term, nobody.  The election was fraud. Show the Libyans example by standing up to Nigerian crooked politicians and police first. Before blaming the Libyan people for keeping him there. I reckon you would never do that, because you are talking from either an airconditioning room or office.

Lastly, d one question I want you to answer with honesty is CAN U START AN UPRISING AGAINST OBASANJO, TALK MORE OF TYRANT LIKE COLONEL GHADAFI?

Yesterday at 8:04pm · 

Roseline 

"laughing my ass off." lmao!! so I don't understand what ruling with an iron fist means or he has no where to go....there was absolutely nothing to misinterpret in what you had stated above, I clearly read and understood, and its obvious that you are comparing the rule of government in Nigeria with libya,and gaza,if you think they are the same then whats the point of the arguement , you yourself know that Nigeria would never have allowed Obsanjo to rule for 41yrs!

Yesterday at 8:18pm · 

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla' 

Lol...Nigeria would have not allowed Obasanjo to rule for 41 years? Would you have stopped him, is d question u avoided once again. And how come u were around when IBB and Abacha clung to power and we didnt see Nigerians starting an up rising?  The only one that happen was just for one or two days which was in 1991. Don't compare Nigerians, with the Arabs. Nigerians are cowards...now, I meant that in a nice way.

Yesterday at 8:34pm · 

Roseline

 I asked you a question which you didn't answer,has there been any president in Nigeria who ruled for 41yrs??? I personally only can not dictate the ruling system of Nigeria,and that alone requires the votes of millions of Nigerians,that is why there is a voting system which has always not been corrupt in the past years,until the rain of obsanjo!

Yesterday at 8:43pm · 

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

Hahahahaha! Voting system? Please dont make me laugh off my skin. You are obviously new or haven't been to Nigeria. Lmao! Come to Nigeria and face reality, and then you will know that candidates are forced on Nigerians and the winner is known even before going to the polls without Nigerians making a noise about. Unless, am the one who lives in a different Nigeria from yours.

And to answer your question, no. No Nigerian leader has ruled for 41 years, and if anyone wishes to do that, there's nothing U, ME or anyone can do about it. Now, can you please answer my question so we can stop going back?

Yesterday at 8:55pm ·

Roseline  

I answered your question already, read my previous comment properly!

Yesterday at 8:57pm · 

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'

Well, I fail to see where u did. Anyway, if u say so. Nice chatting with u dear, I enjoyed your company. Have pleasant dreams and sleep among angels.

Yesterday at 9:09pm · 

Ama 

‎@Roseline and Kingzley thanks for your contributions. I agree with Kingzley that Africa as a continent is corrupt. Who is responsible? What can be done to remove the mark of Slavery from Africa and getting well positioned on a global Map. I believe we are all responsible for the problem in Africa. We need to examine our conscience as human beings, what do we do on a daily basis that has led us into captivity. It is very straightforward. The Libyans voted in a tyrant to rule them for 41 years, nobody wants to die and people love their lives. A situation were I can save my life and my family totally ignoring the outer shell called "Society". So many have practiced complacency for years. It is no-longer working. Hence, the uprising and conflict in Egypt. The Libyans have seen this worked for Egypt. Therefore let us seize the opportunity and make hay while the sun shines and follow our Egyptian brothers to get out of slavery. No Man is above the law and with time those who have contributed significantly to the decadence in Africa will pay for it in due time. Coming back to your question Kingzley on who can match up to Obasanjo? It is very simple of course GOD but he uses human beings like you and I. Obasanjo is not above the law as a matter of fact if he was such a great Man or a dictator why did he not avoid going into prison in the first place. This is a period where so many events are unpredictable and many more to come. He who laughs last laughs best and those who have been stripped bare by poverty without their volition would laugh so hard later. Africa would not continue this way and so many strong men would be stripped off their ammunitions and ranks in whatever society they belong.

14 hours ago · Like · 1 person

Kingzley 'Sleekkilla'  ‎

@ Ama/ Very true, God is d greatest. They saw that fact in General Abacha's case, thats what even saved Obasanjo's life.

13 hours ago · 

Ama  

We have exhausted all the possible angles looking at another hot matter on Queen Ama's Food For Thought. Thank you so much to all my contributors, Roseline, Kingzley, Augustine and Lindsey. This would not be possible without you all. Well going back to the house I am sure you have learnt so much from this weekends subject matter. Food for thought on the list is Freedom, Growth, Unity and Progress in Africa at all cost but with the support of the youth.  It is unbelievable Libya, Tunisia and Egypt have found the cure to "Sit Tight Syndrome", Who is Responsible? See you all same time next week.

5 minutes ago · 

Liberation comes at a price often involving mass scale destruction and new beginnings.

Labels: " The Long-Awaited Cure", "Diabolical Power", "Ruling at All Cost", 

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: Miracle Transformation.

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: Miracle Transformation.: "There are several registered charities funded and founded on the basis for assisting those in need. However, many organisations with such s..."

Miracle Transformation.

There are several registered charities funded and founded on the basis for assisting those in need. However, many organisations with such strategic objectives and mission statement end up taking money from people without putting them into beneficial service and most times for their own selfish-interest and satisfaction of bloated egos.

It is the heart and conscience that truly matters on a Saturday morning. Where an individual takes up the initiative turning little drops into a pool of funds one has been able to commit to changing lives profoundly. It is not the funds that count here but the heart, the desire and commitment to spend time with strangers who gradually become part of one’s family.

Just take a look at the below images of people who need true love, care, shelter and family.

I Met with Tonye Cole, Managing Director of Sahara Energy Group and wife Dr Cole Sylvia who with just a heart to do some good have transformed the lives of so many termed by society as “hopeless”, “useless” and a “burden”.


What Drives your kindness to the needy?

It is unbelievable how a life lived with such conditions can be profoundly hindered by a society that equates any form of disability to demonic attacks, shame/disgrace to the family and a sense of burden and inconvenience to relatives and even the general population.

How can you account for the funds raised overtime to support a charitable project?

As a result of the funding gathered, we have been able to expand the areas of intervention to include the following items listed in below table. In all cases, the beneficiaries are extremely poor and unable to fund necessary operations.

Areas of Need	Cost Implications
1.       Total renovation of the Cheshire Home, Lagos	N2,000,000.00 (approx.)
2.       Cleft surgeries for 15 people in Lagos and Ekiti	N1,500,000.00
3.       Cataracts surgeries for 50 people in Lagos	See Row 5
4.       Minor eye treatment for 30 people in Lagos	See Row 5
5.       Education for eye care, eye tests, eye glasses   for 500 people in Lagos	N2, 010,000.00 (items 3, 4 &5 incl.)
6.       Web site implementation for Global Foundation for Orphaned Children	N135,000.00
7.       Public awareness program for Global Foundation (newspaper interview)	N200,000.00 (so far spent to cover journalists travel and logistics)
8.       Leg and feet correction surgeries for 11 people	N1,450,000.00
9.       Downs syndrome society of Nigeria (heart surgery for 2 children)	N2,400,000.00
10.   Equipping a sick bay for Immaculate Heart College, Borokiri, Port Harcourt	N70,000.00
Total	N9,765,000.00

We have successfully carried out 11 surgeries in Port Harcourt for children and young adults who have suffered from polio, rickets or some form of disability to the legs giving them a reason to walk, talk and smile again.

A Miracle Transformation

 Miracle Food For Thought:

"Many complain of lack, but with the little they have they cannot give".

The Images above are more than enough to convince anyone to make compulsory contributions.

"The greatest fulfilment anyone can receive out of life comes from the passion of touching and transforming lives".

"Until one reaches, the top of Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of need where one help others to self-actualize one has only just started out in life".

"Let us show love whilst we still have the opportunity to do so".

"One can see it is a “miracle transformation”.

Thank you for your help to Lagos Cheshire Home for the Disabled, may God bless you all.

Please contact a.sales@giamediaservicesltd.com ; +44 (0) 7404262865 for all donations.

OR.

Pay Directly into;

HSBC Account number: 31526766, sort code: 40-07-06 using reference "Physically Challenged Mushin".

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True Love is Great

Labels:  "Selflessness  and Sharing",  "Miracle Transformation - Part 2", "What Truly Matters on Saturday Morning- Part 3".

He is a thief, but I still love him.

Queen Ama's Food For Thought: He is a thief, but I still love him.: "Agony Aunt Roseline From Russia February 12 at 9:05am Report Doris has been in a relationship with a ..."

He is a thief, but I still love him.

Roseline From Russia      February 12 at 9:05am

Doris has been in a relationship with a guy from cote De voir for about 8months now, and at the beginning she had asked about his previous relationships, he had spoken about a previous relationship with a Russian girl which he send had ended a longtime ago, several times in other for Doris to be fully satisfied that he was actually telling the truth she decided to investigate herself because she was really in love with the guy, so she asked his friends and several other people who had known him for a very longtime, but of course men are always loyal to their male friends, so they would definitely defend him at all cost, so she still wasn't satisfied and resorted to intruding into his privacy by going through his text msgs on his phone to her great astonishment they had been in communication up till date love text-msgs this had happened when her boyfriend had gone to have his bath and had mistakenly left his phone in the room which he normally doesn't do. Funny enough some of the text messages he had sent to the girl where the very same one he had also sent to her. So she decided not to confront him immediately, because if she did he would have denied it outrightly because there wasn't any visible prove. 


There is another Russian site like Facebook called kontakt where he recently uploaded despicable photos of him and that Russian girl, and she also uses that site and she saw those photos, in outrage she confronted him and showed him the photos and he said that he wasn't the one that uploaded the photos as the girl had the password and access to his account on Kontakt, even his profile picture was the Russian girl's picture, she was so heartbroken and disappointed, he pleaded and begged that he his with the Russian girl for her money,and nothingelse that he doesn't love her, and Doris on the other hand still loves him despite all these and the guy all these while had been dating both of them without her notice, everyday he calls begging that he his ready to leave her, if she accepts him back, so the question his what is Doris expected to do in such a situation?

Ama      February 12 at 10:02am

The Man Doris is dating has a serious Character flaw. A Man is dating another woman because of money and keeping another one because of love. How does that sound, Good or Lousy?

Do you truly believe he loves Doris? He also has a reason for loving Doris, as well. Any Man who can choose anything they love about you or quantify their reason for true love will withdraw from you sooner before those reasons expire.

A man should look after a woman and not the other way round.

Doris should start running for her life before it is too late. When a Man speaks negatively about another woman or says something demeaning in this case, "I am dating this girl for her money" he would reveal exactly the same thing to the next woman when she finds out about Doris.

Doris knows about the other women, has ample evidence, but the other woman knows nothing about Doris. Who is most preferred?

Doris sixth sense had told her something was wrong from the onset, but like ever daring human being, I would stick with it and call it true love. Why did she decide to search his phone because she knew there was something not right about her Man.

Here, is my take on this hot matter. Doris is encouraging another Man to steal from another woman. He has just informed Doris, "I am a thief". What are you doing with a thief?

The ball is in Doris court if after reading this, she still decides to remain with a thief. In no time, she will become one herself.

All My Love,

Queen Ama

Labels: " Heartbroken and Disappointed", "Character Flaw", "Gigolo", "Agony Aunt".

Why Some Men End Up Dogs!

Henry    February 15 at 12:33am

This is going to be kind of an epistle.

I have this thing I do casually and that is mending relationships and building broken ones. I guess this is a situation where a doctor can no longer treat himself.

While I was in college, I never wanted to date because I know am adventurous with women and will not want commitments or to break their heart either. However on graduation, I decided that am of age to respect women and show commitment. I then ran into a girl who was a guest in a family friend's house, she was doing her diploma. In 2005, I fell in love with her and she did too. She had issues with securing admission into the university, a year later, I felt I have to help my girlfriend, and somehow I paid a whopping some of N170,000 to get her admission. Her family couldn't do this for her then. One way or the other I saw her through school, then I changed my job in her 300level to become a banker- and later in December 2009, I was affected by the retrenchment. So throughout her final year, I was without a job and no longer met up as usual, and within this time her attitude towards me totally changed. She began to avoid me. I dated her for five years, and I never for one day cheated on her because I wanted to keep to my promise of been faithful. However, last year, since she began sleeping around with the same person she told me nothing was between them, and she was seeing some other guys. It became too much for me that the only person I believed in was not there for me in my time of troubles, rather she was hurting me and frustrating all my effort to get into any form of communication with her. She has hurt me so much I cant start siting instances. This year she eventually came back to school to work on her project and after we talked, she confessed some of her shortcomings of cheating on me, which I openly forgave her because to "err is human and to forgive is divine". I asked her to change and stop all she is doing. She agreed but went back to school and continued. Every time I want to see her, she switches her phone off and later explains her battery was off. She has never done this before. I called her on Sunday to plan Valentine gala with her, but she told me she was going to travel on Valentines day to Lagos because her sister is travelling abroad and wanted her to come stay with the kids. I then accepted but made a counter offer- that instead of travelling to Lagos by road and get there in the evening, that she should spend the day with me and then in the evening I will fly her out to Lagos, she still refused the offer. On valentines day, I called to wish her happy valentine and bon voyage and she claimed she was on her way already to Lagos, and then she switched her phone off at 8.30pm. Curiously, I decided to call her sister so as to speak with her just in the event it was her battery that was dead. Low and behold, her sister knew nothing about her trip to Lagos on Monday- Valentine's day. She had informed her sister she will be coming to Lagos on the 15th of February. Her sister promised to call me just in case she arrives, but she is still not there till now. I waited patiently for her to graduate so together we could build our future- but her attitude sets me 5 years behind. I can forgive a cheating girlfriend but its difficult to forget a deceptive girlfriend and one you can no longer trust. It is like sitting on a gun powder, I am terribly confused and do not know what to do. I still love her- but am thinking of letting go. I know sometimes we just have to let go of what we value so much, because we love them and then move ahead. Whats your take on this epistle.

Ama        February 16 at 10:55am

Dear Henry,

Thanks for sharing with me. I know how you feel right now.

True love is what is left over when being in love has burnt away.

You are still in love after everything. It is encouraging to know men do feel this way.

I am so sorry, but it is obvious your woman is dating another Man. She spent valentine with him. When 2 people are in a relationship and all of a sudden one, starts appearing to be elusive that is the first signal of a dying relationship or a convenient way to say I am no longer interested. She does not want to hurt you, and that is the only way to send across a good message, “leave me alone”. Then an active phone becomes dead all of a sudden, but yet she is active in the hands of another man.

You went into the relationship with an innocent heart, to love, to give, to build and to grow. However, the woman in question had you going because she wanted her school fees paid, which her family could not afford. Poverty in Africa has also disconnected true love from the agenda in most relationships. Many people have gone into relationships for financial reasons. Once that factor has been fully tapped into or the beneficiary sees no use of its benefactor of course they take off. That is how parasites survive through life. A parasite takes from you, they get nutrients like school fees from you, and they drain you without giving anything in return.

Poverty is not the only factor responsible for lack of natural love because girls brought up with silver spoons also date men for their money. It has to do with strength of character, morals and values.

Coming back to you as the man, why did you pay for her school fees? Did you want anything in return or what we call a charitable gesture?

You were already thinking of your future with her, but she was not looking in the same direction as you. She is not ready for marriage or commitment now and has other more noteworthy things on her scale of preference. Therefore, you could not meet up during the global recession, and of course, someone else could fulfil that need.

Today, it is extremely difficult to find 2 people who go into a natural-loving relationship without been calculating on what you can get from it. Therefore, anyone who is likely to exhibit any trace of true love is likely to get hurt. The society sees such people as "laughable fools".

The first lady and president of America, Mr and Mrs Obama, goes to show you can start a relationship without been so calculating. A casual relationship which gradually builds up friendship, understanding, character, love and strength. Check those individuals’ years down the line you would not be far from success, happiness and fulfilment, which they exude all around them. They become a yardstick for most relationships.

Here, is my take on this common phenomenon, stop calling her for now even though you are hurting and need to make a point. You are a Man and nobody has the right to set you 5 years back they are not God. You have your destiny in your hands, and it is only you that can steer it towards your dreams, hope and aspirations. I can state categorically nobody will do that for you but someone who truly sees your vision, understands it and wants to be part of it. When you find her she would be forever active in your arms come rain and sunshine. Her phone would be on the charger and there will be no excuse as to a dead battery. She will put you first before an aunt traveling abroad.

I wish you best of luck as you change your marketing strategy towards getting a real woman and you having the right values to attract a decent one.

Love,

Queen Ama

Henry   February 16 at 7:17pm 

Thanks for the hard line. I have never cried b4 even though I know I have a good heart, but right now I want to but still cannot. It is very disappointing for one to make all effort beyond to be truely commited, faithful, & sincere to someone and still get it thrown back at them. I have noticed that when I hurt people, I get it paid back to me in ten folds especially when the person is innocent and its vice versa. This is because I believe in the law of karma. My fear is I do not know if she can handle her own disappiontments when karma takes effects because it will be huge. For me the only solution is for the person to come begging or me go begging. I wish I could stop it because I have forgiven her but I cannot until she comes asking me to forgive her. However I will adhere to your advice, but am really sorry for the next woman that will come into my life (if any) because I will never give in my whole again even in marriage. I dont think I can freely ever trust a woman, whosoever she might be. Ama you are a darling- thanks alot & hope to hear from you soon.

Ama   February 16 at 11:11pm

Dear Henry,

Please do not allow one mistake ruin your future happiness. Pray you get a woman who appreciates you for who you are and not because you can pay her way through school.

I hate to hear you say your future wife would suffer. 

Labels: "My Girlfriend is Spending Valentine with Another Man",  "Poverty in Africa".

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A True Love Letter From Jupiter!

"An Illusion called Beauty"

Victor  February 5 at 10:16am 

Hi damsel this very first moment I am seeing you, your beauty radiates gorgeously like a diamond, It has been so long a woman has ever captured my attention so fully, Your smile lights up my entire spirit. Your smiles fills my humble heart with joy & affection, and your mere presence in my life will warmly inspire my life. I have no doubt, you are the woman Heaven had made especially for me.

Most importantly, Trust me you will be glad you did sharing your ideas and wanting to make me your Husband. No matter how slowly or at what distance our courtship develops, I know standing before God and our future family, vowing to be your partner for life, was the easiest decision I could have ever made.

It could seem like am in dreams right now, am a very positive person, i wish you feel same way am feeling right now someday meeting you out there. I have onced been told of tales about " Relationship on the internet ", I never believed it but with you I can stand to be a testimony. I admire your fragrance beauty and sincerely you are the real definition of BEAUTY. I am willing to accept all terms of having you, I need your love, care and affection in my life.

Each day that passes from today would make my affection for you grow stronger. Although I know it’s hard for us to be apart, I know nothing can keep us apart forever. Our desires will continue to stretch across any distance, over every mountain and ocean between us. Nothing can stand between us, and nothing will stop me from meeting you.

You are my future and nothing can ever keep us from our destiny. I would miss you more every day. I am here with open arms where you will some day finally arrive... right where you belong.

my humble heart seeks for your love....

do have your self a wonderful day,

God Bless you..

patiently waiting to hear from you.

Ama       February 5 at 10:49pm

Hello Victor, Thanks for your message. How thoughtful of you. 

Victor    February 7 at 12:46pm 

Glad to really hear from you, i bless the day i met u, you are a gem, simple, gorgeous, my heart got it all, i wish too hear from you soon.

God bless your heart.

av a great week ahead

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