Tuesday, 11 January 2011

What Truly Matters on a Saturday Morning- Part 2


Does one know what it feels like having no shelter, food to eat, clothes to cover ones nakedness and orphaned from HIV/Aids.




The good news for these ones physically challenged of Mushin, Lagos state is not over for them until you and I take the decision making a difference to their lives. Nothing is too small as you contribute towards this realistic project putting back a smile on the face of these ones physically challenged and stripped bare by poverty in Africa. Whatever you donate is accounted, responding satisfactorily to the most serious cases affecting these special people.

1.  Malnutrition

2.  Shelter

3.  Clothing

4.  Diseases


5.  Education


Please be part of an excellent project addressing the needs of those who can almost not perform activities done solely by you and I without any assistance; led by the Managing Director Tonye Cole of Sahara Group and wife Dr Cole Sylvia. They have been working on this scheme for years, spending time with them on a memorable day January 11th which is his birthday. 



Now we can all say one is doing what truly matters on Saturday morning outside of ones family, relatives and children. Please let us strive to turn around the lives of these Men and Women in Mushin.



They are disabled and cannot perform 4 to 6 activities such as Bathing and washing, preparing their meal, using the toilet, mobility, dressing, eating and drinking without ones assistance. Some of us have the funds to protect a normal lifestyle in the event we become permanently disabled in the future arising from accidents. Yes, we have those funds paid out in the form of premiums protecting ones life on a daily basis but assist those who will not be partly or wholly protected by any Insurance company.

What is your reward? The truth no condition is secure and one must help when in a position to do so. When one's reward comes unexpectedly, from places one least expects and makes one shed tears of joy just like this people one must help.







 You can imagine how these people in Mushin would arise knowing they are loved and now have a variety of shelter, food, clothing and can be cured of diseases. 
Cost Implications.

1.   Tiling of toilets and bathrooms.
2.   Installation of toilet seats and bath tubs 

3.   Changing of windows from wood to sliding glass 
4.   painting of entire building



Charitable Food For Thought


  • This is the easiest of all needs, belongs to the same class and ranks lowest in Abraham Marslows hierarchy of needs. Some of us have attained the highest rank and some slightly above the foundation of the hierarchy. 

  • One can still help from the little one has regardless of ones rank in this hierarchy of needs. 

  • The finest benefit; we can also extend the opportunity of getting them to the third rank where they better understand what family, love and affection involves. 

  • One is not left out helping as one's rewards are equal to attaining the Transcendence needs where you help others to self actualize. 

  • What greatest gift can you get in life other than being on top of this triangle of needs? Then you know you have arrived at  your destination.
 "It is more difficult to please a rich man than one who is poor and needs just little to survive".
 "So, while there is time, let us do good to all and especially those outside of ones family."

Please contact a.sales@giamediaservicesltd.com ;+44 (0) 7404262865 for all donations.


OR.


Pay Directly into;


HSBC Account number: 31526766, sort code: 40-07-06 using reference "Physically Challenged Mushin".

We all wish Mr T Cole a Happy Birthday and many many happy returns!



Labels: "How To Be Compassionate- Part 2", "Saturday and Heartbreaks- Part 2".

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Friday, 7 January 2011

What is Success?

Food For Thought: Success has a way of awakening hidden generations you never knew were related to you. You may have noticed everyone from Kenya is related to President Obama of the United States. I ask the Lord to empower me and my fans to achieve the success that would benefit generations yet unborn. I am benefiting from men like Jesus-Christ, Martin Luther King and Mother Theresa. I love you all.













Welcome To Queen Ama's Food For Thought Welcome Friends!, to an intellectual debate intimately set within the reality of Queen Ama’s glamorous aspirational world of contemporary thinking, political analysis and her infectious love of life and love.

Thursday, 6 January 2011

Masturbation on the Increase.


Hot Matters With Queen Ama


New Year resolutions are completely hopeless and find we very often stick to those things we are given grace to relinquish without so much energy but by merely saying the word, acknowledging is not by ones power or might but by the spirit which makes one a better person on a daily basis. It is better to worry on one's ability to equal one's opportunity on a daily basis than setting a standard for the whole year.


Today: 8:45am

 Kwabena from Accra:  Good Morning

QUEEN AMA:

                         
                            Hello 



Kwabena from Accra:                How are u doing?



QUEEN AMA:


                              Very well



Kwabena from Accra:         Happy New Year


QUEEN AMA:




                              Same to you.





Kwabena from Accra:      Ama, i hope u are very strong  
                                                  in   Christ? 

QUEEN AMA:



                                 What do you think?




Kwabena from Accra:                           Yeah


QUEEN AMA:


 Why ask if I am very strong in Christ?




Kwabena from Accra:                            I need ur help

QUEEN AMA:


                                   Go ahead


 Kwabena from Accra:                            I have challenges with
                                                          masturbation. Am shy to talk  

                                                          to      anyone about it.

QUEEN AMA:



                                    Are you a married Man?


Kwabena from Accra:                             Yeah, got married recently

QUEEN AMA:


                                  What do you think of when 

                 you  engage in the art of masturbation?


Kwabena from Accra:       Am addicted to sex Always feel
                                                     like doing it.           
                        
QUEEN AMA:


                        Does your wife grant you sex
              when you need it most?


Kwabena from Accra:                  Any time
  
QUEEN AMA:


                      Do you enjoy sex with her?

Kwabena from Accra:               Yes I do
QUEEN AMA:


                     Good, problem half solved 

QUEEN AMA:

Do you get the fullest satisfaction during and after sex with your wife?

Kwabena from Accra:       Yes the problem is

QUEEN AMA:

When you masturbate do you think of your wife? Be honest with me.

Kwabena from Accra:   Sometimes Or some sexual scenes.
                                                                                               
QUEEN AMA:
I am glad your wife grants you the fulfillment    you both get from enshrining your love through sex. However, masturbating and thinking of other sex scenes which your wife is not aware of needs to be dealt with.

Kwabena from Accra:         When am out, am so busy i don't      

                                       think about sex that much But?

QUEEN AMA:

Have you heard of idleness is the devils workshop? 


Kwabena from Accra:              Yeah



Kwabena from Accra:  When am alone in my room, i start   to  think about sex and i become horny, then i start to play with my self.


QUEEN AMA:
Why don't you call your wife to join you in the play leading to the main art itself. Then it is no longer Masturbation. You are trying so hard to excite yourself when you have what you need. Ask your wife to touch you in those places that get you so horny. While you touch your wife in those places that get her horny.


Kwabena from Accra:  At times when am talking to a lady friend on phone, i become horny and start to play with myself
        .
QUEEN AMA:
I see the problem now. Do you mind telling your lady friends how much you care about your wife. The conversations you have with your lady friends create the environment for sexual arousal. You need to be clear of your objectives when you pick up the phone to call any woman outside of your wife. Should your conversations be professional you need not think of touching yourself. Here is what I think, you already thought of those strange women in a way you think of your wife when you have sex. Once you pick up the phone to speak with them you start pleasuring.

QUEEN AMA:

        
              I hope am helping this morning?


Kwabena from Accra:       When am alone in the room, I               feel    for sex and it's hard for me to control my self.


QUEEN AMA:

Does your woman know how much you love sex?




Kwabena from Accra:          Yes u are really helping me


QUEEN AMA:

                Good




Kwabena from Accra:         Never got the chance to discuss it
  
QUEEN AMA:

Do you have children yet?




Kwabena from Accra:               Not yet 

QUEEN AMA:



                           Perfect

Kwabena from Accra:                She's 6months pregnant


QUEEN AMA:

I see but hope you did not start feeling this way when your wife went on leave from the usual bed routine?



Kwabena from Accra:         Sorry she called me
                                      She's leaving for work

QUEEN AMA:
Good you are sensitive to your wife and making every attempt to stop every bad habit that will hinder your good relationship. You see your wife is 6months pregnant and going to work.
 What a hard-working woman


Kwabena from Accra:     Thx
 
QUEEN AMA:
You have not answered me as I know it is more difficult for a pregnant woman to have sex in the usual and exciting way she will normally do when she was not double  and having to cater for three people including herself, a husband and a child.



Kwabena from Accra:      I didn't get ur question so can u
                                    pls come back? Thx

QUEEN AMA:
 Did the masturbation problem get worse when your wife couldn't give you the usual bed life changing experience.


QUEEN AMA:
Your wife is pregnant and has to be sensitive to the child in the womb. Therefore cannot give you the normal bed angle. How does this make you feel and having to wait for 9 months?         Has  the Masturbation increased?

Kwabena from Accra:     It has always been worst

QUEEN AMA:

I am happy you acknowledge your problem and not killing your wife for it



Kwabena from Accra:  I started masturbating at age 17    and I will be 32 Feb
 
QUEEN AMA:
Happy Birthday in advance but I am sure Masturbation will be history before you clock 32.




Kwabena from Accra:     Thx



QUEEN AMA:
Most bad habits are mind borne and carried out in the head. I believe once you can control your mind and head, you can put your hands to use when it is necessary. I am happy you a re married and your wife is very active both sexually and otherwise. You need to decree into your life regularly saying I will not masturbate today, when those thoughts come say this " I shall not live by masturbation but by every word which makes me closer to a good woman called my wife. Do not be afraid to tell your wife you are horny and the frequency at which it comes. Once she understands this she will be the one touching you more frequently than you expect.


Kwabena from Accra:    We really enjoy sex together and 
                                  she takes the initiative most of  the time.

QUEEN AMA:
 I am really happy for both of you. You see your wife is dutiful, but you need to help yourself in this regard. It could ruin your marriage, think of all the beautiful things you could loose from continuous practice of Masturbation. It is just a bad habit and you must seek to address this on a daily basis speaking into your life. You alone can help yourself, disengage your mind from those things that lead you into touching yourself.



Kwabena from Accra:          Thank u Ama

QUEEN AMA:


                               Take care.


Kwabena from Accra:         Have a nice day If i may  
                                                      ask, how  old is Queen Ama?

QUEEN AMA:


Age has nothing to do with divine wisdom coming from above.



QUEEN AMA:


I hope you do not mind that I publish our conversation but your name will not show. only the trend of our conversation to help others who have not taken that bold step like you this morning.


Kwabena from Accra:                Thanks

Kwabena from Accra:                Promise me one thing

Kwabena from Accra:                Go ahead

Kwabena from Accra:             U will not publish my name. 


QUEEN AMA:


                                   Of course.


Kwabena from Accra:      I will tell u more about some of
                                                   the  nasty things I used to do.
                                                   Thx so much.





We all struggle in getting rid of those bad habits but how we go about it, and the priority level in ones life is a different ball game.

Are you married but still masturbating? 


Why is Masturbation on the Increase?


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