The Power of a Virtuous Woman.

A vision-less man is one without a virtuous wife. A man who understands the heights he needs to climb in life must understand the importance of a virtuous woman. Many have missed this mark in the journey of greatness, but few understand the importance of a virtuous woman.

Thus, I see many men who now settle for less marrying the choice of their families, friends and communities. A man with vision must work with God's choice for his life and without her; you are going nowhere and your speed would be seriously hampered in life.

My recent trip to Nigeria exposed me to the need for virtuous women around men of vision. A virtuous woman would not support her husband doing evil.

When a virtuous woman meets with her man doing evil; she turns him around completely into a new man. When a virtuous woman resides in a family she turns the life of the men within that family around until they go back to God's original plan for their life. 

A virtuous woman does not condone evil as her appearance of light would change the atmosphere of darkness wherever she sets her feet. A virtuous woman prefers to see change in her immediate environment rather than wealth accumulation for self. Her word is the final message of God to her husband, communities and societies.

She is a woman of influence not necessarily because of her beauty. She is respected in different realms and wields influence. She needs not pay for publicity because her good works would speak for itself.

Why is a virtuous woman important for a man with vision?

Case Study 1

The Death of Ananias and Sapphira is a powerful case study from the bible (Acts 5:1-11).
A case study of how women greedy for wealth can be fully aware of the evil their spouses get into and approve it.

Case study 2

Queen Esther: A virtuous woman had the last word with her husband, which changed the death penalty for her people. How did she do it? (Esther 4).

Death is the result of a vision less Man without a virtuous wife.

It is not difficult to find glamorous and good-looking women across the globe. Today's virtuous women are those who understand their families; communities and nations require creative solutions. The virtuous women are those willing to put away their glamour, jewelry and high-class standard just for things to become better. They are prayer warriors and call forth strength and influence in the spiritual realm.

Are you a Virtuous woman or just a show-off? 

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The Ultimate Journey Of Greatness

Something has to change in your life to embark on the ultimate journey to greatness. It could be your looks, attitude, beliefs and mindset.

Love and Forgiveness are two powerful weapons for the ultimate journey of greatness.
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Breaking News: Woman To Woman!

Womanhood has been seriously downgraded by vessels worthy of honor and prestige. 

I have thought about the issues faced by women on a daily basis from men, families and society. It may interest you to know these issues can be traced back to women like you and me.

On this unfortunate account one can confidently state,

"Woman your problem is not necessarily Man, but other Women. Until, women begin to respect each other they would suffer less set back from men, their families, communities and societies.

Some of us may have our reservations and intelligent thoughts like a Pastor friend who wrote me stating from the bottom of her heart. 

"How many people have chased an individual but one still decides to be faithful to that very one that they are with. We are not teaching our young men to be committed but we will spend all our resources on the women hence absolving them of their responsibilities. The truth is that we will always be surrounded by temptation (men and women) it is the level of respect that one's has for themselves will determine their next level and if they are willing to throw away years of investment."

The above statement still points back to the womenfolk who must respect one another should they want to make individual and collective progress.

The truth:woman to woman issues is not just about being faithful or promiscuity. Women have not understood what respect means and until they love themselves enough to extend it to other women then we all stop suffering setbacks from Men. Setback may come in different forms and not only from a partner being promiscuous.

The key food for thought is unity among real women who are not envious, copycats, but genuine, confident and have deep values. Wherever you meet a real woman she ignites deep change in her family, community and society. Wealth is not what makes a man, community or society respect a woman, but the way Women uphold their femininity and God given position.

The first major woman to woman issue was recorded in the bible. Sarah treats her maid, Haggai with so much disdain after getting all she wanted from her. She uses her authority without respect for human feelings and conditions. The resultant effect of an unpalatable action puts another woman in a marital quagmire. Sometimes, we use other women like ourselves to reach our selfish ends to the detriment of womenfolk.

Sometimes, we form networks in order to reach our selfish goals of using other women to get to the top.

I want you all to close your eyes for a minute and think about how you treat your fellow women on a daily basis? Do you snob others who are not well off like you? What do you say about your fellow women to men (Husband, Brothers, Uncle, Nephews, Male Friends and work colleagues).

What makes you a real woman? Is it the size of your bank account, position, expensive clothing and accessories, family and network?

How do you speak to your housemaids at home? Do you ever wonder why some husbands would even settle for even a housemaid? What is your idea of change for womanhood? 

How do we tackle these issues as it affects woman to woman.

It would be unwise to leave out most of these issues plaguing women and caused by other women in their families, communities and societies. 

Are you not tired of setbacks from our men, families and societies? Therefore, what is the way forward on women to women issues as it affects you and me?

Undeniable love and respect for the womenfolk would make you and me much better.

I just picked up from a friend another woman to woman issue:

I have been dating my best friend's husband for over ten years. He says that he loves me more than her and she is the biggest mistake of his life. We have talked about marriage but he never proposed. They have four beautiful children together. He assures me that once he leaves her for me we will get married and have our own children but I must never make her feel uncomfortable or unhappy because of the children. She loves and trusts me and tells me all her fears about him cheating with another innocent friend whom I have encouraged her to stop speaking to. He says that I am more beautiful than her. She is younger than me.

I visit them and stay with them every now and then. I travel around with her husband more than her and he gives me anything money can buy? I am worried that my biological clock is ticking away but he says we can adopt if it gets too late.

Waoh!!!!! Miss beautiful, are you there? Have you ever wondered why she is in his home and you are still single and hidden in his closet?

Why not get alive and smell the coffee? As my gran taught me " married men in extramarital relationships are ticking time bombs waiting to explode and the good responsible ones never leave their wives and children" A word is enough for the wise. Do not say that I did not tell you.

When you use other women to achieve your selfish goals then you can only get so far with it.

For those of you who support evil knowingly your suffering would know no end because the womenfolk must be treated with respect and true love. We have destroyed for such a longtime and must take a 360 degree turn before it is too 
late.

Best Regards,

Queen Ama

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What Is The Way Forward For Africa?

Agriculture is definitely the way forward for Africa. They can feed the world and still have enough to go around everyone. Africa is sitting on a gold mine and they must take agriculture to the next level. It is time to stop complaining about being jobless and put those hands to good use. Agriculture would help unite families, communities and nations. The Man who feeds another man stands a chance of controlling his destiny. Are you controlling destinies or are they controlling you even with all your resources? Africa wake up as you can do better with Agriculture.

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What Can Women Learn From Angela Merkel Of Germany?

Both Good and bad things would surely happen to the womenfolk for us to learn from it. However, I love to celebrate the good especially when it concerns women. 

What can the womenfolk take from the third-time winner of the German election, Angel Merkel who rose above the limitations of men, family, community and society?

When a woman has values and can impact deep change she would get the vote of her people.

It is not wealth accumulation that makes men, our families, communities and societies respect women.

It is not glamour and the most expensive Horse-tail that brings a woman before Kings and Queens of the land.

It is not the most expensive Jewelry or bottom power that brings a woman to the fore of limelight or leadership. 

It is not ungodly and self- seeking attention that gives a woman upper hand.

Women who understand their God- given position as it involves change in this era of grace would be called into position of service equivalent to greatness.

Something is about to happen in my own country, Nigeria. People with deep values and track record would go for political positions and money would not be determinant. The world is about to operate in a new realm as the world order gradually fades away. It would not matter your gender anymore, but your depth of service to humanity. A time for men and women of rare qualities much likened to Joseph and Daniels of the bible. A time for Men and Women who dare to be different and have a genuine source. The only passport for such people who would help move the world into this new realm is the true spirit of GOD. You can blab from now until tomorrow or even go to Church. However, the true spirit of God is available to do wonders in men and women with a contrite heart and ready for the new. I love you all and have a lovely day.

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The Power Of Peace: An Era of Grace.

Who would have thought Africa would be dealing with issues of peace when our culture has to do with family, communal living, and love? 

Individuals have failed to achieve inner peace in their own lives. Thus, they now extend their unrest to the outer shell called society. The value system is being eroded, and we blame our Leaders and Government for everything without any remorse as to where we have failed as Individuals, 

Families and Communities. 

Inner peace is gradually declining in our lives as we fail to connect with the ultimate source of life. The worst part of it: those who still dine with Idols, who have no hands to save and ears to listen when we meditate. Inner peace is gradually eluding man driving him into a realm of insanity where he brings down structures in a minute, which took decades to plan and build. The lack of inner peace has destroyed Individuals and families who now become a menace to the society. Inner peace is now a scarce commodity causing a surge in the price of other valuable items like National security.

Today, I tell you brothers and sisters no Man yet to attain inner peace would be able to make meaningful contribution to the collective peace of the Nation. 

How can you attain inner peace in the midst of Poverty, Starvation, Insecurity and Joblessness?  We have come to the era of grace where money cannot do it all for you. We have come to the era of grace where our values help us connect to our source. Everyone is affected in this era of grace: The Rich, Poor and average working class all need a measure of grace to achieve inner peace and collective peace. We cannot claim to have made progress when we cannot live amicably with our brother, sister and next-door neighbor. A man who holds the gun to your head pulling that trigger is fighting with unrest and has also caused unrest in another Man's life. We can run from one country to another in search of peace, but until you do the right things, peace would surely develop legs running miles away from you. The civil society, business, government and churches have work to do as we all strive to attain individual peace. The power of peace cannot be undermined in an era of grace. Today, where are you in terms of achieving inner peace.

We can achieve Inner peace as we key into the ultimate power that gives it freely and at no cost. Are you ready for inner peace? Shut your eyes for a moment and think of a GOD who is mighty to deliver and save.

Today, I encourage you all to step into the realm of grace and enjoy inner peace like never before.

 Life does not promise stability, but you can achieve inner peace. True peace comes to men who believe in the ultimate power greater than themselves.

What is life without challenges, but great men achieve peace even in the midst of storms.

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